How to adjust in a joint family? That's a big question!

How to adjust in a joint family? That's a big question!

A joint family is like a Peepal tree which gives shade, protection, and fruitful love to all.

It is very well known to us that in India when you get married; it is not only the responsibility of the boy but also of his family, especially if you are going to a joint family. When you've spent all your years growing up in a nuclear family with all the space you wanted, the joint setup comes with some adjustments. If you are confused about it, understand its importance and then think carefully.

Warm Tips -

??Give yourself time

??Put a smile on your face

??Give others time to understand

??To know the history of the family, take the help of elders

??Most importantly try to change your personal habits

Does not panic, read further for some tips, and understand -

??Make a splash

First things first, you have to stay positive. No one is there to pick you up, so don't panic. Don't form your ideas about joint family only on the basis of what you see on television or in movies. It is a matter of time; you will settle down and build your relationships with all the family members,

So take it easy in the initial stages. Join conversations, be a part of discussions, and make sure you have enough time with family members in a light-hearted manner.

??Consider it your home

Yes, it is new and you are not used to it, and that is why you should consider yourself a part of the family. They are your own people, not 'others'. This idea will also incorporate your own ideas about being a member of the family. If it's something that needs to be considered, be a part of that process. Don't go in with the attitude that it doesn't matter to you. Provide valuable input and leave it at that. Do not expect that your ideas will be appreciated or implemented immediately, but present them with love.

??Respect relatives

Respect to be respected. Yes, it's hard because you already have a lot to think about, but be open-minded about it. You may have become so used to your parents' home that you may not need to put in the extra effort there, but in the new home, you will need to. Don't expect drastic changes in the house from day one, but slowly absorb the atmosphere and make sure that you are not too harsh on anyone. If you are feeling pressure then talk to someone in the house or open up to all of them.

??Lend a helping hand

You have entered a new home and new responsibilities will come upon you. If you're not used to a lot of responsibility, this will be a change you'll have to accept. The more happily and easily you accept, the better it will be. Make an effort to be genuinely helpful, without coming under pressure. These moments will also give you an opportunity to connect with the family members and learn about their past and your husband's childhood.

Remember, this is your home just like you had your own home, give everyone a chance to understand you, understand everyone yourself, and give love and receive love. You know that whether it is family, society or anywhere, the rule of give and take prevails.

??Advantages of Joint Family

A joint family consists of three or more generations, living together under the same roof, sharing the same kitchen and economic expenses. It is a family consisting of three or more nuclear families living together.

??Advantages of Joint Family

??Economic support/function

??Unity and togetherness

??Development of social virtues

??Security and comfort to old-aged members

??The upbringing of children

??Preservation of customs and traditions

??Career growth

??More love and care