Home Design for the ADHD Mind

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, is one of many conditions that fall within the spectrum of neurodiversity. As a spectrum, it means there are no hard or fast rules about who experiences exactly which symptoms and when.

ADHD primarily affects your eight executive functions; this is the part of your brain that, in short, deals with doing stuff and managing yourself: time management, working memory, self-monitoring, task initiation, planning, organisation and impulse/ emotional control.

Many people with neurodivergent conditions process everyday sensory information such as sounds, sights and smells differently.

The way in which we design our homes could be making it harder for people with ADHD, whether that’s from architectural interventions, layout, decoration, and storage organisation, we usually learn over time how to create methods that work for us. Because ADHD looks so different in everyone, what works and sticks will depend on the person.

Understanding the challenges faced by people with ADHD and other conditions, allows us to explore how architecture and interior design can really help to make a home a calm environment for a neurodiverse mind.

Personal experience

Growing up, XUL’s Director Maia Lemlij was often told by her mother that she must have been a Buddhist Monk in her past life. She tells us what it was like growing up not knowing about her ADHD…

To say my bedroom was sparse is an understatement. All I had was my bed, a desk with nothing on it, a couple of small shelves with two candles and some incense which I never burned because I hated the smell. Unlike all my friends, there were no boy-band posters on my walls, or polaroid pictures of my friends. Intuitively in my teens, I knew I got easily distracted. My walls were the same pale grey as the rest of the house and it would have never occurred to me to ask to have them painted a different colour.

I moved to London when I was 22 with just two suitcases. I lived on my own and my lovely flat was a larger version of my bedroom at home. It was a beautiful and bright period flat, with high ceilings. I then lived in a couple of flat shares with friends and never accumulated much more than I could fit in a small IKEA wardrobe. I had a busy life doing an MSc, working, socialising and getting the most out of London.

I then got married. And had two kids. And a dog. And it feels like grown up life comes with lots and lots and lots of STUFF. Most of it is not my stuff. Almost none of it. It is other people’s stuff.

Two years ago I was diagnosed with ADHD. I started to dissect my life and understand how much of my life’s behavioural patterns and challenges were my ADHD all along. A lot of it, as it turns out.

As I explore the impact of ADHD on my day to day life, I realise that the spaces I inhabit have a big influence on how I feel.

My husband and I are both architects. We designed our beautiful house when our oldest daughter was 1.5 years old. The whole ground floor is open plan. “We need to be able to see her all the time!” we thought. “It will make a fabulous party space!” we said. “She can scoot round and round!” she did. Fast forward 10 years, add another child and a boisterous puppy and open plan doesn’t seem like the best solution.

As the girls grew up, we moved the playroom upstairs and have a ban on toys downstairs. We are however blessed with creative crafty children, so plastic toys and rubber matts have been replaced with boxes and boxes of clay, paint, bushes, way too many felt tips (apparently each one is much needed and has a specific use), and paper in dozens of textures and formats. Do you know how hard it is to keep paper tidy when they are always pulling sheets from the middle?

The thing with open plan is that stuff travels, and it travels particularly well when there is not a clear place for things to be, or when you have enough flat surfaces to put things down “just for for a minute” on your way to do something else.

Crafty kids give you precious…well, crafts. Lovely paintings, pottery and artefacts. They go up on the shelves together with all the vases and gifts from our wedding and souvenirs from our trips. When I am downstairs at home I find it hard to relax. All the things I see all the time means it is visual information my brain somehow has to process. It is over stimulating, distracting and exhausting.

I am now carefully thinking how I can regain control of my house. As I understand better how my brain operates, my house needs to provide the right environment for my neurodivergent family.

I am not saying open plan and neurodiversity don’t go together, but we need to be mindful that too much open plan might be overwhelming for some of us.

I would like the spaces I inhabit to help foster the creativity of my ADHD brain. That creativity feels harder to access if there is too much visual noise around. I also know that I can’t pin all my hope on a Marie Kondo approach (trust me, I’ve tried) as my ADHD means I just can’t keep up with it. Whatever you do, you need to be realistic, make it sustainable, and approach it with kindness. The more the architecture does for you, the less it will rely on your own organisational skills.

Questions to ask yourself

Through Maia’s thinking, some initial questions which XUL now use to help frame a brief for ADHD home design are…

• Do I need a space to retreat?
• How much do I want to see? do I find particular items distracting? What could go behind doors or even glass cabinets?
• Everything should have a place and you want it to make it clear for everyone what that place is. It might help you make an inventory of different things you own and try to categorise them. Or think of “a day in your life” and think how things move around as your day goes by. For example, where do you put your things as you walk into your house? school bags? shoes?
• Are you sensitive to light? Think of your houses’ orientation and how you mitigate ingress of direct sunlight at different times of day.
• Are you sensitive to noise? Think of acoustics and providing the right noise insulation for different functions. For example, if you plan to work downstairs, think of where you are placing your desk in relation to appliances. You might want to add additional acoustic insulation on walls and floors. Think also about materials and surfaces (i.e. squeaking noises from furniture moving around on hard floors)
• Are you sensitive to smell? This might have an impact on open plan kitchens for example
• Chose lighting carefully as flickering artificial lights can be problematic for some people.
• Are you sensitive to flooring textures? Do you like to walk barefoot or not?
• Chose your colour palette carefully. This is where Maia is torn as her creative brain pushes to chose bold colours but that might not have the same calming effect as a more neutral palette. Accents of colour might work better than lots colour and clashing patterns. For flooring and other finishes, you might want to chose something that doesn’t have a very heavy pattern.

Can you relate? As we do more research in this area, we would love to hear from you and your experience.?Get in touch with us