Hitting Reset on Your Dreams

Hitting Reset on Your Dreams

You spend your whole life chasing a dream. As a kid, it’s this shiny, far-off thing. For me it started in my driveway, imagining buzzer-beaters to win the NCAA Tournament for Seton Hall. Then it begins to progress. You start sacrificing. You wake up at dawn, you train through exhaustion, you skip parties, miss holidays, and hear people say, “You’re absolutely crazy.” You grind because that dream is the only thing that makes sense.

And for those of us who made it, there’s this moment where it all pays off. The blood, sweat, and countless hours of work finally culminate. You’re competing at the highest level. You’re living what most people call “the dream.” And it is amazing. Empowering,

But eventually, it all ends. The whistle blows for the last time, and you’re sitting there thinking, Now what?

It hits hard. You’ve poured your entire life into competing, ignoring anything that didn’t make you better at your sport. And now, you’re asked to do it all over again. Rebuild. Figure it out. Sacrifice some more. But this time, the dream isn’t clear. There’s no roadmap, and you’re not some wide-eyed kid anymore…you’re a grizzled vet in a world that no longer values you.

For most athletes, this transition feels impossible. You’re starting from square one, but without the adrenaline, without the fans, without the feeling of stepping onto a court, a field, or a track knowing you belong there. That sense of purpose is gone, and trying to replace it is a grind most of us never see coming.

The grind doesn’t stop when your playing days are over. It just shifts. You go from chasing a dream you spent your whole life preparing for, to chasing something completely unknown. No structure. No clear goal. Just the overwhelming feeling that you have to start over.

I lived this firsthand. One day, I was a professional basketball player. The next, I was just another NARP trying to figure out where I belonged. And nothing captured that feeling more than the morning I found myself on a train to Philadelphia, heading to my first-ever job interview outside of basketball.

My heart pounded against my ribs like it was trying to escape. Each beat slammed through my chest, a relentless bass drum in my personal horror movie. It was so loud I could’ve sworn the other passengers heard it. Louder. Louder. Louder. No amount of deep breathing or self-talk could slow it down.

I pressed my forehead against the window of the PATCO train, staring blankly at the blur of South Jersey rushing past, trying to ground myself. I wasn’t going to a game. I wasn’t heading to an arena, or a gym, or anywhere remotely familiar. I was on my way to a job interview in Philadelphia, the first real job interview of my life and one that didn’t involve basketball.

For the last ten years, I had lived in a world of sneakers squeaking on hardwood, locker rooms, flight itineraries, and a ball bouncing against the floor. My entire identity had been built around being a pro athlete. Now? I was just another guy in an ill-fitting suit, pretending I knew what the hell I was doing.

I scanned the small, urine-scented train car, trying to figure out where exactly my life had gone off the rails. The other passengers looked comfortable, like they belonged. Guys in business casual flipping through emails on their phones, commuters lost in their morning routine. Meanwhile, I sat there feeling like an imposter, like a lost kid wearing his dad’s suit to career day.

I had taken this train before…usually at night, usually riding the high of a Philadelphia win. Back then, the destination was always the same…home. No stress, just another late-night ride back to Jersey. But this? This was different. This time, there was no comfort waiting for me at the end of the line. Just a world I didn’t understand and a version of myself I didn’t recognize.

And I had no idea how to play this game.

There was no coach handing me a playbook, no teammates to lean on, no film to study. Just me, fumbling my way through a world that didn’t care how many points I’d scored or how many countries I’d played in.

But what if it didn’t have to be that hard?

What if there was a system in place, an ecosystem that connects you to the tools, resources, and opportunities you need, all in one place? What if the grind after your playing days could be simplified?

That’s exactly what we’ve built. A system designed by athletes, for athletes, because we’ve lived this transition, and we know what it takes to get through it. This ecosystem connects you to everything you need: career coaching, financial guidance, media opportunities, a community that gets it. No guesswork. No starting from scratch. Just a direct path forward.

We know what it’s like to wake up and think, Where do I even start?

The grind doesn’t stop when the game ends. But now, it doesn’t have to feel like you’re chasing a dream in the dark.

I built this because I needed it myself. Now, it’s here for you. The game might be over, but your next move doesn’t have to be a mystery.

Cheers,

Kevin Owens

Overseas Famous

Lonneke B.

CEO, Founder and Creative Genius

1 个月

Having been active in sports is such a blessing to cary on in so many parts of your life! Love your insight, Kevin!

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Kenneth Jacobsen

Practice Professor of Law, Attorney, Sports Business Owner, Featured Speaker, Media Commentator, Successful Trial Lawyer, Mentor

1 个月

What a great piece Kevin!

Khizer Abbas

Partnership Manager at NextNet Services LLC

1 个月

I can only imagine how daunting it must be for athletes to trade in their jerseys for a suit and tie, and your willingness to share your own struggles and create a supportive system for others is a beautiful testament to the power of community and paying it forward.

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