The Hidden Power of Nonconformity: Embrace Authenticity to Progress
Benissa Kayoka
Navigating the Intersection Between Behaviour, Design and Engineering.
You won't believe the question people keep asking me again and again! - "How do you manage to juggle it all?". I mean, three kids, a full-time career, and still being able to write this- it's like pulling off a magic trick, right? Well, I'll let you in on a little secret - the real magic lies in being unapologetically YOU!
As we go about our daily lives, we often find ourselves consumed with finding answers, schedules, and theories to help us tackle our never-ending to-do lists. However, we tend to overlook the importance of self-discovery. I don't wish to be seen as a perfect mother and career woman, nor do I glorify the idea of struggling to make it look like I have everything under control. Nevertheless, I've learned the art of persistence. For me, it all starts with knowing and understanding who I am - my values and how my life experiences have shaped me. I'm constantly surrounded by people who know more and acknowledge that I don't know everything. Despite this, I know that I am fully capable.
Whether you're striving to be a better parent, leader, or simply a better human being, it's important to recognize that every learning journey is deeply personal. And yet, we often fail to acknowledge this fact. We get so caught up in external expectations and pressures that we forget the importance of introspection and self-reflection. But by embracing ourselves in this way, we open ourselves up to truly learning from others.
Every person has their own path of learning, but there is nobody quite like you. Your individual experiences, values, and personality traits are what make you truly exceptional. By accepting and embracing your distinctiveness and striving to become the best version of yourself, you can unleash your own unique superpower. Even on difficult days when things don't go according to plan, you can hold onto this sense of self-awareness to navigate through life's challenges.
In conclusion, always remember that no one can take away being you.
Learning Specialist | Senior Instructional Designer | Expert in Project & Change Management
1 年This is very true! I love how you mention the little soccer team and work, it is a juggle and yet you do it so effortlessly. You are right that you can't forget yourself. <3
Double-Doctorate Holder in Environmental Biochemistry and Engineering | Global Academic Coach | Research Consultant
1 年Insightful piece Nzeba Kayoka . I love theme of embracing self awareness and authencity in our respective spaces.
Mission Curator - Climate Change
1 年I love this! Really well written!