Hidden in Plain Sight: Why Ignoring Black Women Sets Us Back

Welcome to this week's #TellAllTuesday. Today, we're diving deep into a critical issue that affects us all: the systemic disregard for the voices of Black women. The recent election has amplified feelings of frustration and invisibility as our concerns continue to be overlooked in political and social spheres. It's time to address why listening to Black women is not just important—it's essential for meaningful progress.

Last Tuesday, I sat frustrated with the results of this election. I kept thinking about how many people I talk with about housing and energy are always thinking about solutions first and people second. I think about the influx of priority to LMI/BIPOC/DAC communities but the need for more money for LMI/BIPOC/DAC organizations and small businesses. I kept thinking about the frustration that my family and friend's living situations did not change despite some living in electrified buildings. They were still stressed about their housing, electric bills, and lack of employment opportunities. I think about how insane it feels to say the same thing repeatedly in public meetings—that we must act from the perspective of the people most impacted and consistently ignored. This frustration was front and center, seeing our federal government elections highlight precisely what structural racism aims to achieve. This experience is not unique to me; it reflects a broader issue where our voices are unheard or appropriated.

So what happens when we are ignored?

• Policy Failures: When BIPOC women's voices are ignored, policies often fail to address systemic issues like energy insecurity, healthcare disparities, and wage gaps.
• Economic Inequality: The median wealth of Black and Latina women is significantly lower than that of their white counterparts (Prosperity Now, 2023). Ignoring our voices perpetuates this gap.
• Social Injustice: Dismissing our experiences contributes to ongoing racism and sexism, hindering societal progress.

Why Our Voices Matter

• Unique Perspectives: Our lived experiences provide valuable insights into the challenges faced by marginalized communities.
• Inclusive Solutions: Incorporating our voices leads to more equitable and effective policies.
• Empowerment: Listening validates our experiences and empowers future generations to speak up.

Despite the challenges, we continue to show resilience. Here's how we can strengthen our voices and encourage others to listen:

Assertive Communication

Claim Your Space: Use confident language and make eye contact to assert your presence in discussions.

Address Appropriation: If someone takes credit for your idea, politely point out that you mentioned it earlier.

Community Solidarity

Support Networks: Join or form groups with other BIPOC women to share experiences and strategies.

Collective Advocacy: Collaborate on initiatives that amplify your voices, making it harder to be ignored.

Engage Allies

Educate Supporters: Encourage allies to use their privilege to create space for BIPOC voices.

Partnerships: Work with organizations that prioritize inclusivity and equity.

Self-Care and Mental Health

Mindfulness Practices: Engage in meditation, yoga, or journaling to manage stress.

Professional Support: Seek counselors or therapists who understand cultural nuances.

Here are some organizations to support and join:

• The Black Women's Health Imperative: Focuses on improving health outcomes for Black women.
• Native Women Lead: Supports Native American women in leadership and entrepreneurship.
• MANA, A National Latina Organization: Advocates for the empowerment of Latina women.

Educational Materials:

• "Sister Outsider" by Audre Lorde: Essays on race, gender, and sexuality.
• "This Bridge Called My Back" edited by Cherríe Moraga and Gloria E. Anzaldúa: Writings by radical women of color.

Online Platforms:

• Lean In Women of Color Network: Provides resources and community support.
• The LAMBDA Network: Offers support for LGBTQ+ BIPOC individuals.

Action Steps for Allies

• Listen Actively: Give full attention when BIPOC women speak without interrupting or dismissing their experiences.
• Amplify Voices: Use your platforms to elevate the stories and contributions of BIPOC women.
• Challenge Biases: Confront stereotypes and biases when you see them, whether in social settings or professional environments.

Ignoring the voices of Black women doesn't just harm us—it hinders progress for everyone. Our experiences, insights, and solutions are invaluable in creating a just and equitable society. It's time to listen and act on what we hear.