The Hidden Language of Emotions: Understanding Plutchik’s Wheel in the Workplace
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Frustration. Disappointment. Annoyance.
Sahil felt all of these at once.
He noticed his colleague was free and decided to update them about an important work process. As he started explaining, his colleague nodded absentmindedly while scrolling through their phone, but Sahil kept his cool and continued.
A few hours later, the same colleague approached him and asked, “Hey, can you explain that process again?”
Sahil sighed internally. Why didn’t they listen the first time?
Sound familiar? Have you ever felt unseen, unheard, or dismissed at work? These feelings don’t just arise randomly—there’s a deeper psychological pattern behind them.
Why Should Corporate Professionals Care About Emotions?
You might think, “It’s just work. Why analyze emotions?” But emotions play a crucial role in leadership, teamwork, and decision-making.
Emotional Intelligence Boosts Leadership A manager who senses an employee’s overwhelm (fear + sadness) instead of assuming laziness can offer support rather than frustration. Research shows that 90% of top performers have high emotional intelligence, enabling them to recognize and manage not just their own emotions but also those of their team members. Leaders with strong emotional intelligence can create a more supportive and productive work environment by responding with understanding rather than frustration
Emotional Awareness Reduces Workplace Conflicts A short, cold email may seem rude, but if you understand that stress (fear + anticipation) can make people abrupt, you might respond with empathy instead of irritation. According to a study by global consulting firm DDI, leaders who excel at listening and responding with empathy perform 40% higher in coaching, planning, and decision-making. This highlights how emotional awareness helps in de-escalating potential conflicts and fostering better workplace relationships
Better Decision-Making Understanding emotions helps us make smarter choices. A sales executive sensing a client’s hesitation (fear + anticipation) can adjust their approach to build trust instead of pushing harder. A McKinsey survey revealed that only 20% of professionals believe their organizations excel at decision-making, suggesting that many leaders struggle with making sound choices. Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in navigating complex decisions by allowing leaders to read situations accurately and adapt their strategies effectively
Understanding Emotions: Plutchik’s Wheel
Dr. Robert Plutchik, a renowned psychologist, developed the Wheel of Emotions to explain how emotions interact and evolve. His model identifies eight primary emotions that combine to form complex emotional experiences:
These emotions mix to create new feelings. For example:
In Sahil’s case, he wasn’t just annoyed. He was experiencing frustration (anger + anticipation) because he had expected engagement but received disinterest instead.
But Sahil wasn’t just an employee. He was also a manager. And as a leader, understanding emotions wasn’t just about himself—it was about his entire team.
How Can Managers Apply Plutchik’s Wheel at Work?
Sahil had been recently promoted to a managerial role. His team was talented but often struggled with communication gaps. Meetings would go silent when tough decisions needed to be made, deadlines were missed due to unspoken hesitations, and small conflicts escalated because no one addressed underlying emotions.
He knew he had to do something different.
One morning, Sahil received a last-minute project revision from his boss. His immediate reaction was irritation (anger + surprise). But instead of snapping at his team, he paused. Why was he really upset?
He realized it wasn’t just the extra work—it was that he hadn’t anticipated the change. By labeling his emotions, he shifted his mindset from frustration to problem-solving. Instead of venting, he called a quick meeting to realign priorities.
2. Reading His Team’s Emotions Beyond Words
During a brainstorming session, Sahil noticed that his teammate, Priya, who was usually vocal, seemed unusually quiet. Instead of assuming disengagement, he observed her body language—she seemed withdrawn and tense.
Rather than ignoring it, he checked in privately. Priya hesitated but eventually shared that she was overwhelmed (fear + sadness). The team had assumed she was just “being off,” but in reality, she was struggling with a heavy workload. With a simple conversation, Sahil helped redistribute tasks and gave her the breathing space she needed.
3. Navigating Conflict with Emotional Awareness
A heated debate erupted between two team members over a client request. Both were convinced they were right, and the tension in the room was rising.
Sahil remembered that conflict is often fueled by underlying emotions, not just opposing opinions.
Instead of forcing a decision, he asked each person what their concern was. One admitted they were worried about quality (trust + fear), while the other was stressed about deadlines (anticipation + anxiety). Once these emotions were acknowledged, the conversation shifted from “who’s right?” to “how do we solve this together?”
4. Using Emotional Intelligence for Better Decision-Making
A senior leader was hesitant to approve a risky but promising project. Sahil recognized the emotion behind the hesitation—fear + anticipation.
Rather than pushing harder, he adjusted his approach. Instead of selling the project with excitement (joy + anticipation), he acknowledged the risk factors, then demonstrated how they had mitigation strategies in place. By aligning his message with the leader’s emotions, he gained buy-in more effectively.
Sahil took a deep breath. Instead of dwelling on frustration, he recognized his emotions and adjusted his response. When his colleague returned with questions, he calmly said, “Sure! I explained this earlier, but let me quickly summarize.”
Rather than feeling resentful, he chose understanding. Maybe his colleague was distracted due to their own stress. Maybe they weren’t fully present earlier but now genuinely wanted to learn.
By recognizing emotions—his own and others’—Sahil turned an irritating situation into an opportunity for collaboration.
Emotions Are Your Superpower
We all experience frustration, disappointment, and annoyance at work. But when we understand the why behind these emotions, we gain control over how we respond.
So the next time you feel unheard, pause. Identify the emotion. Understand it. And most importantly, use it wisely.
Because emotions, when understood, are not a weakness. They’re your greatest strength. ??
This article is written by Sourabh Chavan, Learning Solution Manager, GlobalGyan Leadership Academy.