The Hidden Danger of Giving Up: Oppression Can Make People Stop Trying
Melissa Darville
CEO Shiver Caribbean LLC, Top 100 Finalist EWC 2019 Certified Scrum Master (CSM), Author, Educator
Imagine if you kept asking for something fair—like being treated with respect, having a good job, or living in a safe neighborhood—but no one ever listened. At first, you might try harder. You might speak up louder, work harder, or even join others to demand change. But after many years of waiting and trying, without seeing real change, some people start to lose hope.
They begin to believe that things will never change, no matter what they do. Instead of fighting for better, they settle for whatever is easiest—even if it means not living their best life. This is one of the most dangerous effects of long-term oppression.
But here’s the truth: giving up is exactly what keeps a country from becoming great. Every person has potential, and when people are held back, the entire nation suffers.
What Happens When People Lose Hope?
When people live under unfair rules or systems for a long time, they may begin to believe that nothing will ever get better. This can lead to:
This can happen to individuals, families, and even whole communities. Over time, this weakens the entire country, because fewer people are creating, leading, or building a better future.
Why Is This a Big Problem for Everyone
A country is only as strong as its people. Imagine a sports team where half the players stop trying because they believe they can never win. The whole team suffers, not just the players who gave up.
The same thing happens in a nation. If thousands of people stop striving for their best because they feel beaten down, the entire country?will lose talent, creativity, and progress.
Think about it: ?? What if the next great scientist never tries to invent something new because they feel like no one will support them? ?? What if a child with big dreams never follows them because they think success is only for the rich or powerful? ?? What if talented people never build businesses or lead because they believe their voices don’t matter?
When people believe they can’t change their future, the whole country stays stuck. But when everyone is encouraged to grow and reach their highest potential, a nation becomes strong, successful, and full of opportunity.
How We Can Break Free
The good news is that change is possible. People can rebuild hope and break free from the cycle of oppression. Here’s how:
No matter how unfair the world seems, every person has power. The most important thing is to never stop believing that things can get better—because when people believe in themselves, they help their country grow and succeed.
A Nation at Its Best
A great nation is built by people who believe in their own potential. When everyone is free to grow and succeed, the entire country becomes stronger, smarter, and more powerful.
So, we must not settle for “just surviving”—we must aim to thrive. Instead of losing hope, we must keep learning, building, and striving for better. Because when all people are at their best, the nation reaches its greatest potential too.
Never give up on what is right. Never stop believing in your own power. A better future is always possible—if we keep moving forward together.