He’s just not into you

My mind is telling me no, but my body is telling me yesss!!

… unless it helps me make a point. Like right now.

So many women know they are in dead-end relationships that aren’t going anywhere…

… but they don’t do anything about it.

They convince themselves that it’s just in their head and that things will get better.

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending.

Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule.

But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs.

How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future.

Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope.

If your gut is telling you “no,” then it’s no. When it’s “yes,” you’re gonna know it.

You’re Always the One Initiating to See Him

When a man is into you, he’s gonna be initiating to want to see you as well.

He’s Not Interested in the Things that You Do

… or the things that you like, or, quite frankly, in anything about you, other than sex.

If that’s the case, then goodbye, move on, find the next guy.

He’d Rather Spend Time with Other Women

That’s an obvious one.

He doesn’t really look at you.

I mean, when a man really likes a woman or has an interest in a woman, science has proven that literally, he can’t take his eyes away.

He’s Asking You About Dating Advice For Another Women

Huge deal-breaker.

He’s Never Done anything Nice For You, Whatsoever

Now if you’ve known each other for more than three months, and he’s never gone out of his way for you, then you know what? He sucks.

He Actively Flirts With Other Women

And not to make you jealous, but because he’s just flirting with other women.

He Doesn’t Care When You Are In Crisis

Men are natural providers, and a man who’s interested in you as a person, if he sees that you’re in a crisis, or knows that there is something wrong, he’s going to want to come and help you fix it.

He’s Never Trying to Impress You

Now men can sometimes go overboard on this, and that gets annoying, but if he’s not being a little bit douchey every once in a while, showing off his cool car, or whatever it is that he does, then he’s probably not interested in you.

He Never Opens Up Emotionally

Everything that he talks about is just very like factual-based.

He’s Only Hearing You, He’s Not Really Listening to You

When a man’s heart is really open to a woman, he doesn’t just hear the words that she’s saying, he really listens because he actually cares what she’s saying, and what she’s feeling.

He Doesn’t Seem to Care About Your Relationship With Other Men, Even the Slightest

If a man is really interested in a woman, he is not going to like seeing her with other men, and he’s usually going to show at least small signs of jealousy.

He Treats You Like ……….?

He’s basically indifferent towards you. You need to realize that you’re an amazingly unique woman, and if he doesn’t see that, then he is done.

He’s “Always Busy”

He’s using the classic excuse that men use when they’re not interested… “he’s always busy”.

And that’s just his excuse for never being there. Now I get it, some guys are just legitimately busy. They got work stuff, they got stuff with their families, whatever it is. But if he is always busy and can’t put in the time to be with you, then why would you want to be with him? He’s out.

Time to wake up!

The right man for you wants to spend time with you. He wants to see you in the flesh and have ample opportunity to kiss those pretty lips of yours. He would never hide from you or make excuses about how busy he is. When a man is serious about you, he'll move heaven and earth to spend time with you. 

Your wake-up call………….NOW.

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