Here's one of the most effective ways to reduce stress, anxiety, and overwhelm
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Here's one of the most effective ways to reduce stress, anxiety, and overwhelm

If you ask a group of children, “Who are you? Point to yourself,” where do you think they’d point? In her years of teaching kids meditation, Deb Rozman, the CEO of Heartmath Institute, found that time and again they point to their hearts.?

But when I asked some adults, they quickly pointed to their heads. It made me wonder if we’ve lost track of what makes up all of who we are. Sure, our minds and personalities are a large part of how we operate and perceive the world around us. To be without them would be no life at all. But when you love, double over with laughter, experience compassion, offer kindness, or truly forgive someone, your heart plays a pivotal role.?

In the 1990s researchers discovered that your heart has sensory neurons that can sense, feel, learn, and remember. It’s constantly receiving like a radio receiver and transmitting how your body feels. It’s not metaphoric, it’s scientific. And the heart sends more messages to your brain than your brain does to your heart.?

So our hearts are pretty impressive and not to be ignored especially when we're looking for tools that help make life feel more manageable. ??

My chat with Deborah Rozman was mindblowing, take a listen above. Below, you'll find out what you can try, what I loved, and how to dig deeper.

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What you can try…

I loved this 5-step practice Deborah taught me called quick coherence which can help you improve how you feel and the quality of your decisions. She says when they’ve shown children how to do this while hooked up to a monitor, they can observe their heart’s rhythm changing in real-time:??

When you feel hurt or angry or frustrated, here's what you can do.

  1. Put your hand on your heart
  2. Pretend like your breath is flowing in and out of your heart area, slowly and deeply
  3. Count to five as you breathe in, and five as you breathe out
  4. Now, as you keep doing this, recall something that really warms your heart. This could be warm sunshine in your heart, the love and gratitude you feel for someone close to you, or a pet
  5. Feel the feeling as you breathe slowly through your heart for a few minutes

Deborah says from there, you can make more intelligent decisions about things in your life. When I tried it, I felt calmer, appreciative, and more grounded immediately. In under a minute, I was almost in tears – a clear signal that you're more in your heart than your head. Imagine if we all did this, even once a day.?

Quotes you'll want to remember...

“...think of your cell phone. It's communicating through an electromagnetic field [and like a]?radio, you receive what's on that station. The little brain in the heart tunes to different frequencies, a different radio station, if you will, than the brain tunes to. You want both of them together for full human potential.”

“When there's nowhere else to go, we tend to go to our hearts to try to find some direction and clarity. [Why?] It's pretty natural, it is the operating system…"

Did you miss our last In the Arena Live? We shared our favorite check-in tool that you can use anytime you want to make positive changes.

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What I'm still wondering...

I want to know more about the heart's involvement in practical intuition and how we can be more intentional about working that muscle (pun intended).

How about you? What questions do you still have?

Dig Deeper...

Want more information, learning, and proof? I know I always do! Check out this video from Rollin McCraty Ph.D., Director of Research at Heartmath Institute and learn more about the science behind Heartmath here .

In the Arena is LinkedIn News’ weekly human potential podcast hosted by (me)?Leah Smart . You’ll hear from some of the world's brightest minds and bravest hearts about how to show up daily to live a better & more meaningful life. Each week, this newsletter shares learnings and practices connected to the conversations. This week I talked to Deborah Rozman , CEO of Heartmath Institute about the research around the intelligence of hearts. Subscribe to the show's newsletter ?here .

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1 年

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Nihar Chhaya, MBA, MCC

Executive coach to global CEOs and CXO’s | Named one of the world’s 50 most influential coaches by Thinkers50 | Harvard Business Review Contributor | Wharton MBA | Master Certified Coach (MCC)-Int’l Coach Federation

1 年

Such a great interview Leah! This really works! Many of us are so much in our head trying to logically get out of the anxiety that consumes us that we forget to drop into the body and lean on our somatic intelligence. This is something I’m trying to practice more.

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Jennifer H A.

Senior Customer Operations Representative at GT Medical Technologies, Inc.

1 年

This was so uplifting and inspiring, I’m planning on trying the exercises, breathing techniques suggested- thank you ??

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Sharon K Evans

Director at Oasis Housing Inc.

1 年

Love this- thank you for sharing! It is so easy to get lost in one's turmoil and anxiety- feeling like you are drowning and cannot escape the stress. No one is perfect, and life sure isn't. I strive to do better and will work on trying this out.

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Alexis (Lexy) Hughes

Marketing Leader | Storyteller | Pipeline Driver | Relationship Builder | Content Creator | Lifelong Learner

1 年

Leah, this is such a valuable perspective. In my professional life, I continually feel the friction between wanting to show up with my whole heart (a la Brené Brown's research and teaching) and knowing that I am 100% measured by my results and productivity. So much to think about and feel.

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