Here’s How to Heal Your Money Mistakes
Halle Eavelyn
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If you’re ready to free yourself from the long-term emotional drain after a financial loss, particularly when that loss was the result of a mistake you made, then this message is for you.
?Let's be real.? Losing money hurts, and the resulting pain has the potential to create a psychic wound that can haunt us – for days, months, even years.? This wound might manifest as FUD (Fear, Uncertainty, Doubt), or it can also show up as guilt, shame, and chronic self-criticism.
?Some of us try to discharge the pain by telling our story over and over, to anyone who will listen.? Some of us try to repress the pain, hiding it even from our closest loved ones.? Neither extreme helps us get unstuck.
?As a Transformational Wealth Coach, I know what's really stopping you from moving forward: it’s the stories that you’re holding onto around money, and the beliefs that you have about your own limitations as a result of those stories.
?I’m going to give you an example from my own life.? I don’t normally share this, but I think it will help put what I’m saying into perspective.??
Many years ago, I was the victim of a Ponzi scheme.? I invite you to go to the full episode to hear the whole story, but suffice it to say, back then my partner and I were on a roller-coaster ride with finances.? And because we were bottoming out in our cash flow, I allowed greed to get in my way and I ignored my gut instinct, which was saying, “This doesn’t feel right.” ? Someone I trusted was investing money in the project, and even though it seemed too good to be true, the desperate part of me thought, “This will fix everything.” ? Well, it didn’t.? My friend (the one who encouraged me to invest) and I both lost everything to the scheme.???
I lived with that for a long time.? About thirteen years ago, I started to ask the question, “Is this still on my heart?”? And finally, I? did forgive everyone involved, including myself. ? That conscious choice to forgive (not forget) freed me.??
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Because until I allowed myself to truly forgive, I was trapped — almost like a butterfly in amber.? There was a part of me energetically that was living in that moment where I made the mistake, and finally, I recognized that it was holding me back.?
Another key step you can take right now to heal from a money mistake is to claim the gift that lies hidden within that painful experience.? Why?? Because the best lessons in life are often found in the mistakes we make.???
For example, when I looked for the hidden gift in my situation, I realized that the early days of that investment were actually a beautiful experience, because I got to live and play inside of the energy of, “I have all of that money.” I felt deeply what it would be like to have the big returns that I was being promised. ? That was a powerful energetic shift in my imagination.??
?And since money is just energy (because everything is energy)… if we can truly bless some aspect of our past money mistakes, we stand poised and empowered to transform our hard-earned wisdom into inspired action— such as joyfully creating money magic in the present moment.??
To find out more about how to break through the limiting stories and beliefs you may have about your relationship with the energy of money, click below to read or listen to the rest of the episode.?
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