Help others no matter what?
Mukhlesur Rahman
Corporate Affairs @Banglalink (VEON)I Executive Coach I C-Suite I Board Member I Trainer I
Do you help others? Do you want good things about others? Almost obvious answer is YES!
Do you feel appreciated as you usually help others? The likely answer is NOT REALLY!
What can be the reasons for this? Why don't you get the right and adequate appreciation from the people you think you helped? Or why aren't people thankful to the people who are helping them?
I know there can be many reasons. There can be many perspectives. I'd rather recommend you to be selfish! Yes, you heard it right!! Selfish does not mean you stop helping others. Selfish in terms of saving your own benefits while extending your helping hands. How can you do that?
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Treat helping others is a habit you need to get used to. The obvious reason of helping others is be happy in life. Treat helping others is your virtue you cannot live without. So you help others whatever way you can. Treat yourself as a patient who needs a medicine of 'helping others' regularly. People will be benefitted and better off with your help - that is a by product for you. You do not look for the final outcome or impact of your help. You just help others whatever you can. Of course, some may appreciate your help, some may not. You do not expect anyone to appreciate your help. You help others as you feel better by doing better things for others. See only your happiness - be selfish. You will never feel bad if someone does not appreciate your help or someone does not even understand your generosity. It's not about them, it's about you!
For many practical reasons, helping gets forwarded. If you feel 'not appreciated enough' for the sacrifice you make for others, well, do not expect appreciation from others. You help someone, someone helps someone else. That way your help gets forwarded to someone else. When we all start helping others, automatically you will be helped by others. Even if not, you continue helping others no matter what for your own happiness. You are human - you need to exercise your human quality, you need to help others with your capacity.
So, help other!
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3 年Ma Sha ALLAH...Well written bhai...may ALLAH give all of us the same mentaity to help others.