Help others even when you know they won't help you back
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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When you help someone who is most likely incapable of returning your favour, now do you feel happiness in your heart? If your answer is yes, please go ahead and help the one in need and enjoy the bliss, which in itself is the reward. However, if your answer is no and you do it to get clicked by someone or for uploading your selfies and show the world how kind you are, still go ahead and help the needy.
When the one you help is capable of helping you back when you are in need. If you can help that person without getting hurt or feeling bad, at his denial, i.e zero expectation ( which I think is an an ideal or a theoretical concept), go ahead and do it. But, if the person cleverly skips or avoids every single chance and leaves you in misery, in spite of you having been at his side at every possible occasion, I don't think, such people should be entertained.
These are those self-centred and overly smart people who are always ready to take an advantage of others.When their turn comes, they will have all the possible excuses in the world. Its better to avoid such people. No use of hurting yourself and sitting with a feeling of betrayal and loss of trust. The whole equilibrium of any system depends on the process of give and take. You cannot be at the receiving end all the times. To maintain the balance, giving is equally important as receiving. In this case please do not disturb the balance by being on either side always.
Spiritually speaking, please keep helping people, and at the same time, practice honing your ability to articulate what you need. Sometimes people don’t care to help. But often times, people don’t understand we need help or don’t understand when we need it or how to provide it. Personally, I’m still trying to figure out that balance in relationships. How to give myself fully to other people while at the same time having the communication skills and the personal honesty to express when I also need something.
When taken together, those two sides of a relationship like giving and receiving freely over a period of time is trust and that’s not easy to build. We must help unconditionally and do it because you want to and expect nothing back whatsoever. We need to help where it benefits you most and do it because it will do you good in the short/long run, help the helpless and help where no one else will help either. Remember that there is no wrong answer, but if the actions/reactions of those you are helping are causing you to not want to do it further, then it is fully justified.
Finally, if you help and expect a repayment it is not help it is an interchange, a deal however, help for the sake of goodness if you do not believe God. If you believe in God do it for love to him and for the love of people. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit
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