Heartful of love is my prayer today

This is a real life incident. A woman met with an accident. A speeding car hit her scooty from behind. She broke her skull, her back bone and organs were also damaged. A passerby immediately took her to a private hospital. Her husband was called. Their's was a love marriage, they were in a relation of 5 years before they fought all the odds and norms to tie the knot. Their love for each other was beyond any finite value. Her husband reached the hospital, he was in tears, just wanted to see her once. He wasn't allowed, she was serious.

The doctors asked him to contact the reception before they could start the emergency operation with only 30% chances of survival. Receptionist asked him to deposit around 5 lacs rupees with an estimated expenditure of 10 lacs. They were a lower middle class couple, with an income of 15K a month, 5 lacs was no less than a dream, and the chances of survival were less than 30%. Life would be worst without money. His parents, and every wise person present there advised to accept his wife's fate and refuse the procedure.

Answer the two questions if you can- What is better, or important, or more valuable, love or money? What should he do in this situation? 10 years later. He was sitting in his office, sipping hot tea, his colleague asked- ‘Sir, are you satisfied with life?’ 'Why?’ he asked. 'Sir you sold your house, vehicle and all jewellery for your wife's operation, but still she couldn't be saved, you lost your love and all your wealth simultaneously' He smiled and replied-'If that day I didn't take all the chances to save her, each second of my life would be hell thereon.

No money, no wealth, nothing could have helped me. I am satisfied that I did whatever I could do to save my love. Death was her fate, so she had to go, I still love her, I will love her till my last breath and beyond, even though she isn't present physically, she is there in each and every corner of my heart'. He then took out her photograph from his wallet and kissed it. The one who has experienced the feeling of true love would know that love is an asset valuable than any other thing in this world.

You need love and affection from your spouse for continuing with your family life. And you also need knowledge to make your household economy run balanced. You can't live your life with just one extreme. On one hand- without knowledge how can you do your job/run a business/raise a child/etc. without knowledge? On the other hand, without love you'll be behaving like a cold hearted bi**h, you'll be indifferent to their needs. There's this beautiful Hindi movie which comes to my mind when I speak of this- Dhadkan.

If you haven't seen it I'll give you the brief story. A girl loves a poor, unemployed boy. But the girl's parents don't agree to the match. They marry her off to another guy who's rich, handsome, polite, hard working and humble. She doesn't love him in the beginning but eventually starts respecting him and perhaps loving him too. After some years the poor boy comes back becoming rich (somehow). He tries to rekindle the fire between them. She's in dilemma. She chooses her husband and family. Moral- Arranged marriages aren't so bad. And 'Love' isn't everything in life. You need much more than that to live and survive the world.

Love is unconditional and trust in love is even more blind. Brain stimulations do involve in love. You love someone only by accepting their mistakes here the brain knows everything and still you do not leave the thought of thinking about that special person. This is love. Heart here is only there to purify and pump blood to the other organs. Here, I give to two instances to prove my answer brain is what involves in love. When you see some one you feel for or love.

Your heart start to beat fast. That is because your brain has noticed the person you love. Here, heart has only reacted to your brain. This is scientifically proven, the Oxytocin hormone known as happy hormone that which is released when you are spending time with your loved ones, is stimulation of brain reactions. Even here, heart has nothing to do with. Heart has only reacted to our brain. Love has nothing to do with heart. It is done with brain and with whole consciousness. Love is a Cupid's play. Cheers!