A heart that loves is always beautiful

First of all beauty is subjective and lies in the eyes of beholder and I personally believe that even the worst of criminals have a good heart, everyone does. We all have both good and bad traits but how we choose to portray it to the world is what matters. Many people would here like to disagree with me when I say pretty face and pretty heart are just labels. But it is also true that we strive and tend to see people faces and judge them before we actually know them and since beauty is subjective you may find a person attractive while the others may not.

A pretty face and a ugly face both has a pretty heart, but the choice is yours to take if you truly love the person it doesn't matter if you have a pretty face or a pretty heart because both of these things are subjective. You might find a person pretty but that fades with age and you might get someone with a pretty heart but that fades away too because everyone has their dark side. If you truly love someone you will choose that person despite of ugly face or ugly heart and accept them as they are. Hence these two things don't matter if you truly love someone.

My dad once said, marry based on personality as looks fade over time and you need something to keep you there. I said yes dad but looks helps you make babies. Men tend to be more visual and woman more connective. I know this story where a dark skinned stout girl fell in love with a tall handsome fair looking guy. She followed him everywhere. She found pleasure in staring at him for long time. She smiled at him whenever he looked at her. She created sacred love towards him. He lived in the same apartment of that girl's. She wanted to propose him finally. He always used to date pretty girls. All his girlfriends were so pretty. He had never been good to the people who were ugly.

So one day the dark skinned girl got a love letter and knocked the flat door of the boy. He opened the door and stood along with his female friend. The dark skinned girl gave him the letter and started staring at his face until he opened the letter and read “ I love you”. She felt butterflies in her stomach and looked at his face for reply. He silently folded the paper, looked at his female friend and bursted out laughing. Both his friend and he laughed at the girl and mocked at her skin color and body size. He bragged at his fair look and scolded her not to appear before him in the future. The girl felt bitter and heart broken. She cried for long time and cursed herself for being born dark and God for doing this to her.

One day she went for a walk and saw him standing and chitchatting with the same female friend. She turned back to leave but suddenly heard a loud scream of him. A car dashed him out and he dropped on the ground with blood all over his body. The female friend of him ran away with fear. People around were watching him but none rescued him. His face was full of scars and bloody holes. The girl stuck at shock for a moment and ran towards him. She cried louder and admitted him immediately in the hospital. She stayed with him all the night and took care of him. She did enormous service until he gets alright. The boy felt extremely sad at his behavior towards her when she proposed him.

She took care of him like a mother even when the guy lost all his fair look and seemed more like a beast than handsome. He was no more a fair handsome guy. But she never bothered this. She worked day and night for his recovery. The guy suddenly felt like she looked so beautiful when she was helping him walk, eat, sleep. He found beauty in the dark skin and stout body of her. He noticed the charm in the same body he rejected. He understood that beauty is not external features. It's something beyond that. It's something internal. He realized the need of having inner beauty. He felt sorry and apologized for his obstinacy. He expressed his love for her and promised her that he would make her happy her whole life no matter what. He stopped bragging and started being good with all the people irrespective of their skin types, body sizes or looks.

The guy who thought that the girl was too ugly to match him found beauty in her actions. He lost his beauty but the girl still accepted him. The girl does have the beauty but the guy failed to see that in the beginning. Later on he understood how malicious he was. The most important thing in my perception is inner beauty. Outer looks fade away sometime or the other. Beauty is like a air bubble.we must try to increase our inner beauty. We should strive to bring smile on someone's face rather than sending them hate by mocking for their outer looks.

Everyone is beautiful. But yes. Not everyone could be able to see it. It takes the right person to see the beauty of a person. People should start finding the beauty inside someone's heart rather than pointing at their darkness. Mocking someone for their gloomy or bad looks is the most pathetic thing one can do. One can stay in the hearts of people even after their death if he or she reflects his or her inner beauty all over the world. It's not about how you look. It's about how you see yourself. I think that people shouldn't think that they're not pretty enough. To be beautiful means to be yourself.

You need not be accepted by others. You need to accept you self. All your scars. All your flaws. Because they make you. Inner beauty should be most important part of improving one's self. Be grateful for what you have. Be grateful for being born. Appreciate every single thing that brings smile on the faces of people. Stop complaining.Don't strive for looking beautiful externally. Stop comparing. Because You are beautiful in your own way! Focus on your inner beauty because it never needs make-up. Cheers!

I'm not beautiful like you, I'm beautiful like me :)

But now I am married I totally agree that personality is the key to long term happiness.