Hear "The Unheard"?

Hear "The Unheard"

As a human being we all get attached to the people around us in different ways but when people leave that feeling is one of the worst to go with.

Many of you asked me "Why did you drop-out your Engineering" ,is this a worst decision ever made?

Let me get to the point. & finally got the answers about everything what i am looking for.

As per my experience till now,we have two different types of feeling that is thinking from mind or heart.

The biggest difference is,when you think from heart & do what you love is a true decision made by you,no matter how difficult will be the situation we will manage to handle them out but when you listen to your mind,this is the time when you think limited & start comparing yourself with others which hitted your mind to doubt yourself which lead to no-where except frustration & demotivation.

What is Motivation?

Motivation is not something you just watch some videos & you got the anger to work hard but after some hours or some day again you will be at the same stage & process will repeat again & again which makes you not to be productive.

So,how to tackle?

Don't think positive instead do positive said by Mr.Deek Parassini.

Just take a pen & paper make your tomorrow plan if you don't have it for the next day then again you are going to waste your day by doing nothing with overdose of overthinking.

Why did i dropout from engineering?

It's not a wise decision that i thought but believe me ,my mind is empty that time but my heart says,do it man & you can do it, to prove yourself not to others.At the same instance going from friends negative thoughts about me & some of the close people who stop talking to me ,which broke me up into pieces & thought pop-up, is that i am too bad not to have single person to call me up & ask 'Hey,how are you doing?

Can't even express those feeling & days went through but that makes me to drop-out from engineering which comes directly from my heart & those days are hard to live in depression ,crying long hours in a close washroom but everyday i woke up with hunger to do something & slowly everything goes fine,learned a lot from those experience to do what i love.

Decision taken by heart always motivated you to work for what you love but it's hard at the same time.

Unheard Experience?

You know what i found a pretty much pattern from the time i drop-out ,moments when people leave me alone, which means a lot, to people like me because whatever the situation never give up & mean it what i do.But i thanks to those people if they didn't make me learn that "people will talk to you when they want,not when you want" i couldn't be here.

You won't believe similar pattern i observed year to year & then at once we fall for someone, the very first time for me but again that person left me & that doesn't make any sense but what hurt is how easily people say after 6 months that they don't have feelings for you & the person like me or someone else who give their part from their heart to some people ,this feeling is the worst that someone can go with.

Difference between breakup & heartbreak?

Break-up doesn't mean a true love instead it's just an attachment or infatuation that people named it as love & after sometime or 6 to 8 months you get attached to someone else then this process go on.And if some one love you from heart no matter how bad you are & what may be the situation they won't leave you but such people exist in very few numbers.

But for one person it can be a break-up but at other end it's an heartbreak & believe me the person at other end not getting affecting because she or he going to get someone else for sometime then the process go on.

Just want to deliver if you love someone don't take that decision too fast to get into take your time & if you say after 6 months you don't have feelings which means you don't even love that person ,it's just an attachment you named it as love but what about the person at other end if it was from true heart.Okay it's fine if you don't have feelings after sometime but instead of leaving someone just find the answer why & give it a chance if the person at other end love you from heart.

At this point what happen is ,if someone really love you they will try to get you back but the other person will stick to your past mistakes & will leave you because it's doesn't matter to them at the end because she or he just attached to you instead they love you.

If i tell you one story the guy really love someone from the heart & she left at some point even after ,whatever guy do to make her understand but she won't.That feeling is like, nothing is worth for you,everything feels like empty(because guy is very dedicated to the things & after she left ,he lost his dog because of his mistakes & after sometime come to know that he is suffering from some disease which he never thought of,if you look here everything looks like hell because when you need someone to talk,no one is there) & this point you don't have fear to loose anything but two things possible at this point whether you will loose yourself or you will fly like a bird in a sky.

We can't hold anyone life & what happens everything has a reason behind.You won't believe when i am asking myself why people go ,no answer for this but as observed since 3 years after drop-out the time when people leave & i feel like nothing,always i transform this emotions in some other form what my heart says to do, as at first i started writing my all feelings in the form of articles which give me relief & the day she left some days before i took the pencil to transform all feelings by making a picture of her & start writing the poems what my heart feel to do ,come up with my first audio clip you can find here & subscribe for more https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BJ3sHfSXTA4.

It's not bad to cry & miss those moments but not even good to hold those moments which make you loose from everything.Instead as when people leave it makes me more stronger to achieve what i want & transform your emotions to things you love to do by heart.

You won't find the reason of why people leave but yes you can observe the pattern that really drives you to something you love to achieve.

Stop comparing yourself with others because when you do,you are doubting yourself.Let people think what they want to,you do what makes you happy & good to go.

Don't loose yourself instead transform your emotions & started doing positive to achieve you dream off.

Many great artist transform their emotions to something they like instead of loosing their life.

At the end just want to deliver sometime that whatever problem or stress you are going through,every answer is within you.

Don't be positive instead Do Positive.

Please don't text me after reading article lot of people suffer the same but less will deliver what they feel & how they tackle.

Thanks for reading!!!!


Dharmesh Kawa

Web Development and Support,Machine Learning Intern

4 年

Well said vivek chaudhary

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Deek Parassini

The World is My Family – On a Mission to Make Them Realise that “Life Is All Positive” | Life Is All Positive WhatsApp Group 10,000+ members |

4 年

Nice one vivek chaudhary Seems like you have written it from your heart ?? and not mind.. Life is always simple but people always goes after complicated stuff and in that process gets their life complicated. Then they looks for a complicated solutions which make it further complicated ?? and they go on that cycle of life. If this is understood most of the people will figure out. Thank you for mentioning .. All Thanks to God?????? that you have understood the power of “Life Is All Positive”

Naresh Talwar

Clinical Data Specialist at IQVIA

4 年

Wonderful

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