Healing With The Unspoken Power
I deleted the post I wrote earlier about healing from the failed relationship and 3 days shy to my new role in June and I got a chain of messages to wish me strength.
Then it made me realized the negativity that I had passed to people on the professional front and perhaps I should overturn the negativity to some positive ones. I apologized if I've caused some unhappiness and anxiety - this is definitely uncalled for.
However on another hand, I had women wishing me well and shared with me on their healing progress and how they had became stronger and a healthier person.
Many did not understand why I choose for forgive but well, end day is my choice, my life.
I just want to applaud everyone who had the courage to step out and heal. And majority of them held the kids as the priority and strength to move forward.
I guessed this is the power of love, a selfless one. This unspoken power is something that one need to go through some "crisis" to understand the importance.
And I've did my best, as a mother, as a partner and in whichever role I am in. That level of expectation I've set for myself did not change and even my best friend asked, "Why can't you set an expectation for your another half instead of letting them overstepping the limits and remove your boundaries?".
Till date, I have no answer but I always believe that one should embrace each other flaws for a better life together.
OIC CISO at UnionDigital Bank
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