Healing From Narcissistic Relationships
Lily Walford
Heal From Toxic Relationships & Meet The One | Dating & Relationship Coach | Creator of The Love IQ Method | Owner & Founder of Love With Intelligence
GLASS EXPLODED ALL AROUND THE ROOM
Just moments before he grabbed my glass and threw it against the wall just before he charged over to me with his fists over my head. My body cowered into the foetal position and from what I can only describe I felt my soul leave my body.
***FAST FORWARD 10 YEARS***
“So Lily, how did you get into the work you are doing?”
I often joke about the crazy relationships that I have been in. Before becoming a relationship and dating coach it was fair to say that my love life was a mess!
You see I had dated:
And I couldn’t figure why I was ending up in those relationships?! I’m smart, I had a great childhood and I thought I was a good judge of character.
The problem was I didn’t understand that wasn’t the biggest issue that caused me to end up in those relationships. It was my EMPATHY.
Empathy is the easiest way to manipulate someone regardless of how high their IQ is! FACT!
So many people who end up in narcissistic like relationships they tend to question why they ended up in that situation. There’s a cocktail of guilt, shame, fear, anger and confusion.
The questions often come up like:
-Why did I stay in that relationship for so long?
-How did it get so bad?
-Why do I still love them (despite them treating me this way)?
The problem is if you’ve never been in a narcissistic/ manipulative relationship it’s hard to understand or to relate. It’s a relationship that erodes your self-worth and your identity. Imagine being used as a human external hard drive. You end up downloading the emotions, the beliefs and the “sayings”.
Often the symptoms of narcissistic abuse go unnoticed:
The list goes on but these are the ones you mainly notice and they can go on for years after the relationship too!
This is why I created a free training on how to heal from narcissistic abuse.
It’s not as simple as “just get over them already”
These relationships have a level of conditioning that is very similar to a high control cult, so it’s a very different healing process to just “a normal break up”.
There’s an identity to rebuild!
This training will support you to:
You will also learn my double helix strategy to support you to heal from narcissistic abuse.
For the free training please click here: https://bit.ly/Healing-From-Narcissistic-Relationships