HE WHO FINDS A WIFE.

HE WHO FINDS A WIFE.

I was checking within myself being a Well of Wisdom Centre (WoWC) I wanted to know why most ladies are still singles, those who are ready for marriage, I found some answers that have led to most ladies being single.

The LORD took me to the scripture on Proverbs 18:22, the bible says, "he (man) who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD. Now, the question is, why are most ladies still single, that is the question we need to answer.

So, the key word in the scripture is that the man who is single is looking for a someone to marry, but he is not supposed to find a single woman, he needs to find a wife who is ready for marriage.

What that means is that you don't become a wife when you enter in marriage, you become a wife while you are still single, that single man must find a wife in you, men are not looking for single women, they are looking for wives who are not yet married.

Take explain a bit more on this, if you say you are ready for marriage, you need to start showing the true quality of a wife though singles, can you start carrying yourself like that one lady who is ready for marriage.

The biggest problem is when you want to start trying to learn everything when now you are in the life of a partner, this is a long a process, but you can start doing some things that qualifies you to be a wife material, not just a single woman or lady.

For you to be ready for marriage, especially those who are being kept by their parents, even those who stay alone but they are ready, try these few points: -

7 PRACTICES OF A SINGLE LADY READY FOR MARRIAGE.

  1. Practice submission to people who tells you something, that includes the leadership around you, remember, people see, your behavior speak louder.
  2. Practice working up early in the morning and doing morning duties of a serious wise lady must do. Charity begins at home they say, it's really true, don't learn this from your husband's house, it may be a bother.
  3. Practice how to cook well, remember some and most husbands love eating, I'm not a fun of food though, but I love good food, and my wife knows what to do when in the kitchen, start learning how to cook, even for your parents, surprise them with some dish that you have made.
  4. Practice how to iron clothes, depending on the kind of a husband you desire to marry, and his status, it is important that you learn this simple thing, which is critical in marriage, make sure learn so that you don't burn the clothes for your husband.
  5. Practice how to talk like a wise married woman, remember, no husband wants to marry radio FM type of a woman, they want to be safe in their house, and when they speak, they want to feel they are men, their words must be law.
  6. Practice to leave bad friends, remember, no man is ready to be talking about bad friends to a married woman, so, be wise and do what you are supposed to do on your own.
  7. Practice to dress like a noble woman, unfortunately for a single lady who is ready for marriage, some dress code will just destroy your integrity, better you introduce those attires in your husband's house, or be lacky to find someone who will love you like that, I can tell you, it's a game of chance, prevention is better than cure they say.

I want to tell you that when you do these points and others that wisdom will teach you to do, when a husband comes, he will just get you straight, no need of 5 years studying you like you are a course.

Let me conclude by saying, you can decide to be a wife material and wait for a husband to come and marry you, preparation is the only key that makes you ready for any opportunity that may come your way.

Disclaimer: This wisdom is my own finds from within the wells of my belly, therefore, you are free to write your own opinion.

Harrison Sindwa

Medical Practitioner at University Teaching Hospital

8 个月

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