Having good neighbours, life is a bliss
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
What is a good neighbor? For someone a good neighbour is a person who is quiet and not disturbing him but for another that neighbour is boring and bad. So relations with people depends on traits of people. Let’s talk about my neighbors. I prefer to keep myself to myself so I like quite a surrounding and people. I don't make friends with them so we just live near each other, say “Hello” or “ Goodbye” and that is all our relations. For me they are perfect neighbors. Maybe it is because I am brought up like this. We don't have a blast together, we are just people living next door.
Good neighbors is like a second family for us if we understand the real meaning of how to be a good neighbors there will not be any problems. if we focused about the definition of neighbor we will find is the person that lives near or next to another . so its very important if you decided to move to another place before you choose your place choose your neighbors because if it is a good place but with bad people this place will turn to hell believe me its a true experience happened in my life.
And if it is with nice, respectful, cool, neighbors this will be a very nice place you live in. so my point is neighborhood is a very valuable thing you will find friends, help at any time you need it so take in your consideration that also there is somethings you need to avoid if you want to make good neighbors for you first respect their privacy , don't be rude in your talking to them , always being ready for anyone needs help that's how to be a good neighbor and make good ones.
Being quiet, respectful, respectful of boundaries and helpful if required. Examples include., calling in barking dogs, teaching children respectful behavior and not parking your car, (or allowing your friends and family to park cars), in front of your neighbors house. You should also keep your property and garden neat and tidy, if you are physically able to do so. Paying attention and helping when you can. I will not give examples that have happened but think about this. If there is a problem with a neighbor like there grass is not kept as you think it should be, don’t complain. Ask how they are. Ask if they may need help. Maybe the neighbor had surgery? Maybe they are on new meds, maybe something else has changed.
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I guess examples are necessary. So the neighbours trash is piling up. They haven’t taken it off in a week. Maybe they are sick? Maybe there truck is down? Know your neighbors. Who is elderly? Who is sick? Who is disabled? Who is on meds? I’m not saying keep records on everyone. But just pay attention. If the old man across the street’s dog is in your garden……. think again! Does this happen all of the time? If no, go check on him. If yes, see if you can help fix the fence.
The willingness and integrity to be kind, respectful of the people around them, and keeping their property cared for. In other words, treating your neighbor the same way you would like to be treated. The Golden Rule certainly applies here. Reliable, cooperative, trustworthy, respectful, caring, not importunate. They respect their space and your space. Good communicators: often you may not realize something on or with your property that may be causing them any level of “grief.” So if they can just communicate that (without making you defensive or angry), often those things will then be addressed without any further “drama.”
Treat others like you want to be treated. That “golden rule” applies so well to life, most all circumstances. And being informed. Ignorant people are difficult to interact with, get along with and for some/many: for me. Not being a bad neighbour. Some people prefer privacy. Wonderful to have someone in an emergency to help out without ulterior motives. Not damaging others property, annoying noise levels, blocking others legal drive areas, nosey and intrusive. I have seen it all and more. It all depends on what you want from a neighbor. My neighbors are fine for me. We know each other's names. We smile and wave hello to one another. We trust each other if we had to run over for emergency help. But we're not friends, we stay out of each others homes, lives, and business with perfect neighbours. Cheers!
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3 年I completely agree with whatever you have expressed about neighbors......