Have you experienced love at first sight?
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Have you experienced love at first sight?

A lot of people believe in love at first sight. I used to believe in it as well. But my opinion changed somehow.

Love isn’t something that happens overnight. True love takes time, in fact, a lot of time. To fall in love, two people need to get to know each other. And for that, they need time. At first sight, attraction, curiosity, etc is possible, but not love.

It comes to an end as quickly as it begins.

If there is no lasting desire to learn more about the person in issue and your initial physical attraction to the person in question disappears as soon as a new person enters the room, it is likely that it was not love at first sight.

You're making predictions too soon.

Does Love at First Sight Exist?

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Maybe, maybe not. There are those who say it does.

Lust, evolution and first impressions

According to science and logic, what seems to be love at first sight is really desire at first sight.

A relationship between two individuals who have never met or talked to each other can never develop into a loving relationship, at least not an intimate, unconditional, committed one.

I do remember seeing someone once across a crowded room. He was staring right at me and we locked eyes for a while.

Handsome in a rugged sort of way, yet acutely aristocratic, with bedroom eyes, high cheekbones, and a face that showed a hint of vulnerability which kept his looks real.

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It’s true what they say about the clothes making the man. He was dressed in a suit and vest and it was so easy to imagine what I might discover … um … if I were to peel away his dapper wrapping.

I still don’t believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in something, like what I experienced with a man across a crowded room when I caught him staring at me.

It was a private thing and no one was hurt.

Was it love at first sight?

I don’t believe so. I’d say lust is probably closer to what it was.

The attraction was definitely mutual and because it was centered in the mind and imagination, it will always remain a sweet fantasy.

Does Love at First Sight exist? Maybe, maybe not …

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Do you believe in the concept of falling in love at first sight?

Is it real, or is it just a figment of people's fantasies and overactive imaginations to think such things? Is it possible to fall head over heels in love with someone right away?

Although it has been asked for centuries, no definitive answer has ever been found to this question. Love at first sight is a common occurrence in movies and novels, but can it occur in real life as well?

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When you fall in love with someone at first sight, it means you were drawn to him or her from the moment you laid eyes on him or her. When you are attracted to someone, your intuition tells you that it is time to go out and get to know him better on a deeper level.

For the romantic, falling in love at first sight is a kind of enchantment that makes everything else seem insignificant when compared to the person who has captured your attention at first glance.

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Thank you?….The possibility of falling head over heels in love at first sight exists because the natural order of things dictates that you must first be attracted to someone on some level and develop an interest in him before you can pursue deeper emotions such as love.

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Some people even go so far as to suggest that the phrase be changed, believing that infatuation at first sight is a more appropriate description. This brings us to the other side of this debate, where we will discuss. It is possible that you will not be able to fall in love with someone at first sight - that is, fall in love with them deeply.

Attachment increases the production of oxytocin in our brains, which is a bonding hormone that is also produced during delivery and breast-feeding. (It's been dubbed the cuddling hormone, which is adorable as all get out.)

Lust is accompanied with a sense of well-being or security.

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You already have a lot going on in your head on a typical day, so give yourself a break when you're faced with the prospect of a romantic partner. Your neurological and endocrine systems are completely out of whack, and you're likely to have a few misfires here and there. If... then it's most likely not love at first sight.

It comes to an end as quickly as it begins.

If there is no lasting desire to learn more about the person in issue and your initial physical attraction to the person in question disappears as soon as a new person enters the room, it is likely that it was not love at first sight.

You're making predictions too soon.

Do you want to add a word or two?....

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Your body language expresses dissatisfaction with you.

You might meet the most physically beautiful specimen you've ever seen, but if your stomach tightens or if you feel yourself unconsciously crossing your arms and placing yourself away from them, pay attention to those signs and avoid the situation altogether. There's something wrong. When it comes to finding out what it is, there is no need to wait if you don't want to.

The chemical reaction we humans feel when we fall in love is essentially a large release of “pleasure chemicals” called dopamine and oxytocin.

As for making a love pill, that is basically called an aphrodisiac & has been tried many times … oh so many times. Without success.

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The reason is that while love is a chemical reaction, attraction is more of a mental reaction.

You know how “you can't control who you fall in love with”?

A large part of that is we are all attracted to different things and in different ways.

It's like how Viagra can give a man an erection but it doesn't mean the man is “turned on”.

The love pill, one that produces the chemical reaction like falling in love, exists. Usually it is a narcotic painkiller or an illegal street drug.

You can kill pain pretty universally but you can't make someone feel love universally.

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Don't know how helpful I've been, but that's my answer for you.

Your comments?....

Love. It is one of the first emotions that we experience, regardless of what your definition of love is. It could have been when your parents first held you in their arms, or it could have been experienced when you chased your playground crush and scraped your knees in the process.

While love is the first emotion you experience, it is often a wonder of when exactly it happens with the people you meet.

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Sometimes when you fall into a level of comfort with someone, you can ask yourself, “When did I fall in love with you?

?When did it happen?”

It could have been sixth months or one year into a relationship with someone, or even the minute you met them. The idea that you can fall into love at first sight is something that should be embraced when it does happen.

Love grows over time; there’s no question about that. It’s not quite an emotion that can be felt automatically, or can it?

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Love at first sight can often be romanticized in various television shows and movies.

Love at first sight is what weeds the rest of the world out from the person or people you are supposed to be with. Love at first sight is what brings you into someone’s life, and you into theirs.

Love at first sight is how you can see that there is something more to this life than trying to find someone to understand you, because at the end of the day, there is a possibility that person is there and understands you more than yourself. You might have met that person yesterday.

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Dayal Ram

Managing Director at DAYALIZE

2 年

My three (3) prerequisites for making love at first sight a common-enough phenomenon for you: You must live in a decent-sized city (say, population over 500,000) You must have experienced love at first sight before You must be at least a little excited by beautiful women The primary benefits of experiencing love at first sight I’ve noticed are: You immediately notice women who are perfect for you You get an extra boost to your confidence to meet such women The feeling is almost always mutual, which means a warm reception for you It’s just really nice to live in a world overflowing with extraordinary women

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2 年

To love is to value ! To value is to equate ! If you look at some one who matches your values and in turn you match her values it’s obvious that you hv gone by the looks and intuitions. Love Ar first sight will never fail while true love evolved over years will fail as it followed logic and live at first sight is intuition Intuition never fails ! #love #valentinesday #truelove #facebook #instagram #linkedincommunity

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Dayal Ram

Managing Director at DAYALIZE

2 年

Sometimes you ask yourself “Is it real?”, and yet you are faced with a person right in front of you, beckoning your every inner desire to love and feel love for this one single person who you know absolutely nothing about it. You can’t put your finger on what makes this person different from all of the rest. And while “love” can be a strong word, you know that in your heart that there is something that is making you like this person a whole lot more than all of the other people that have crossed your path. You question yourself on whether or not you are losing it, or perhaps you are just putting all of your eggs into one basket, but you know. You know. You know that that person has a spark. They have something that has the potential to make you and your life better than you could’ve ever imagined it to be. And you hope deep, deep inside that they see that potential, too. You like them. Simple as that. And whether or not something truly happens out of this, is really just up to compatibility and fate. So what draws you in? What is it that makes you stop in your tracks, completely forget everything that is going on in your life, and focus on this person? Even if it is fleeting, the feeling of love at first sight is ever present in your mind. And you can read articles upon articles about how humans fall in love and the science of our emotions, but nothing quite rings more true to the theory of falling in love at first sight than having the experience happen for yourself. You can call it initial attraction, or perhaps just a gut reaction – nonetheless you are drawn in. You like them, and it’s just up to you to do something about it. The thing is – love just happens. It just does. You can’t quite explain it, but it exists and often times the potential of falling in love with someone happens within the first glance.

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