Harnessing the Power of Good Habits: Ignite Your Potential and Break Free
Julie Bockarie
Career & Leadership Coach for Women|Mediator|Trainer & Speaker. I help mid-career women break free from career stagnation, gain clarity, and achieve their professional aspirations with confidence and resilience.
As this year quickly comes to an end, it provides us with the perfect opportunity to reflect on our journey and set intentions for the future. ?I believe that establishing good habits is the key to unlocking our true potential. As Jim Rohn says, "Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going." So, let us explore the transforming power of habits and learn how we can cut the ties to everything holding us back.
The Power of Habit: Habits are the building blocks of our lives. They instruct our actions, behaviors, and ultimately, the results we achieve. Good habits can powerfully propel us forward, while bad habits can keep us stuck in a cycle of rut. Understanding the power of habits can help us intentionally create positive routines that support our growth and success.
Motivation vs. Habit: While motivation is essential for getting us started on our journey, it can be momentary at times. Many of us would remember the times when we experienced fleeting motivation, like when we attended motivational events, which pumped us up to act, but which we quickly lost once we left the empowering event.? This is when the power of habit shows up. Habits provide the structure and consistency that we need to sustain our progress. They turn our actions into automatic responses, making it easier to stay on track even when motivation wanes.
Cutting the Ties: To truly embrace the power of healthy habits, we must also identify and let go of anything that is holding us back. As Tony Robbins aptly put it "Cut the ties to everything that is holding you back." These include negative self-talk, limiting beliefs, unhealthy relationships, and routines that do not serve us. Cutting ties with these would enable us to create space for growth, positivity, and new opportunities.
Building Empowering Habits: Now that we have established the importance of developing healthy habits and the need to let go of what no longer serves us, let us explore how we can build empowering habits:
1.????? Identify Your Goals: Clarify your vision and create S.M.A.R.T (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-bound) goals. These are goals that align with your values and aspirations. They will lay the foundation for your new habits.
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2.???? Start Small: Break down your goals into smaller steps. It’s important to focus on one habit at a time, starting with something small and achievable and building momentum over time. This will increase your chances of success. Many times we fail to achieve our goals because we take on too much at a time, get overwhelmed, and then abandon the goals altogether, or halfway through.
3.???? Create a Routine: Create a daily or weekly consistent routine that supports your goals and helps you form good habits. Create a dedicated non-negotiable time on your schedule for your new habit/s.
4.??? Track Your Progress: Keep a habit tracker or journal to monitor your progress. Celebrate your wins and learn from any setbacks. This will help you stay accountable and motivated along the way.
5.???? Seek Support: ?Surround yourself with a supportive community or seek the help of a mentor or coach. Having someone to encourage, guide, and hold you accountable can make all the difference.
Again, as we say goodbye to this year and welcome the new one, let's commit to harnessing the power of healthy habits. Remember that while motivation may get us started, it is the consistent practice of healthy habits that will keep us going. Let us endeavor to cut ties with what no longer serves us, embrace the transformative power of good habits, and step into a future filled with growth, success, and fulfillment.
Thank you for being here. As always, I am here to support you on your journey towards creating a life of purpose and leadership.? Feel free to reach out.? Let us together break free and ignite your success.