Be happy with your woman ….(Your G Friend ).

If I had to dream up the perfect woman, she wouldn’t even come close to you.

Did you know that the number of social contacts and friends you have affects your longevity, health and happiness?

Support from friends in times of stress and the comfort and joy that they can bring are obvious indicators.

Society will tell you how it is important for women to put others first. But while caring for your loved ones is important, you must remember to always put yourself first.

?How to be a happy woman?

If someone is making you unhappy, cut them out. If people are being rude, call them out.

If something is bothering, speak up instead of choosing to stay silent. Silence, in this case, is not golden.

Women who stand up for themselves first are the ones who get standing ovations in this world. So remember to have your back, no matter what.

Choose their dreams

A lot of people will ask you to put your family and related responsibilities before your dreams. But, truth is, in most cases you do not need to kill one off to sustain the other.

Caring after your family is as important as choosing to follow your dream and not giving up. If you give up on your long – cherished dreams for someone, you will inherently despise them for it later.

Isn’t it better to take the harder decision now than trying to struggle through bitterness later?

Many will choose to stay on in a dead or abusive relationship. Just because it’s familiar and the outside world is scary. Others will choose to settle for jerks because they do not know they deserve more.

Remember, you deserve love that is wholesome and not manipulative and draining. It’s actually better to be a happy single woman then to be in an abusive relationship.

Do not put yourself through the pain of dating someone who does not respect you. “You accept the love you think you deserve” so remember that, no matter who you are, you at least deserve basic human decency.

This might be the hardest of them all. When the world is beating you down, it is really hard to offer people flowers and warmth. But you still must do it. Help a stranger carry their groceries. Volunteer. Feed the local strays. Be kind, always be kind.

Even if the world does not repay you with the same warmth, you will know that you did a good deed. That, even for a second in a stranger’s life, you mattered. And that is the answer to all of humanity’s question of purpose.

How to be a happy woman?

Do the small things without expecting reciprocation.

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Thank you?...Believe in unconditional love

A happy woman probably has a dog. Jokes apart, you would be surprised how much having someone’s unconditional love and trust in you can ground you.

Since a happy woman radiates warmth and positivity people like to be around them. They are popular in the workplace, with friends, at family get together and it’s a pleasure to be around them. If you are dating a happy woman you will feel happy in her reflected warmth.

Happy women create lasting bonds with their colleagues, friends and even exs because they believe in the value of relationships. They make the extra effort to stay in touch with friends and family and bring their happiness to their life.

It gives you purpose and a sense of peace to know that, no matter what, there is at least someone who will always be by your side. It will make you want to live up to the trust they place on you and become a better person.

Date yourself first. Once you are happy with the person you are dating you can find a partner.

This should be the order.

Be happy with yourself first then happiness with someone else is a bonus not a necessity.

Everyone has an idea that it is because of their age, or their looks, or because they are not rich enough.

I think it is because they see women as “women” and not as “people.” They often seem to have a much idealized view of what it means to be a woman. Usually, it means being young, fertile, super model, independent and yet also needy, skinny and yet also eating like a man, wanting to spend the night and yet also having monogamous values. It never quite makes sense, as these women of which they speak are unlikely to exist in real life.

Do you want to add a word or two?....

Between the craziness of life, family, work, and just trying to remember when to pack extra tampons, it’s hard being a woman. We have all got our ups and downs, sure, but there are still things we should be doing daily to make the downs a little more tolerable, and maybe even make those ups last longer.

You need to actually try out these things and you will surely see a difference!

Would they ask a plain Jane out?

No way in hell. Not good enough. I mean, there are many lonely single women out there as well.

Women are ordinary people. Even the supermodels look a lot more ordinary in real life.

How about thinking about building relationships with people?

?People who are unique but ordinary, and happen to be female?

Maybe a relationship will grow out of friendship.

I have no illusions. I am not perfect. Nobody is perfect. Just find people you like spending time with.

Maybe they share interests, hobbies, values, and going canoeing or going to a show or walking dogs sounds like something you would like company doing, join a “meetup” group and meet other people who enjoy that activity.

?Friend first, relationship later.

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How to be a happy woman?

This is a question every woman ask themselves and you can never get the right answer if you are cribbing about the?life you have. If you want to find real happiness then you need to cultivate the habits of a happy woman.

And always remember a happy woman is a beautiful woman from inside.

Rather than looking at the side where the grass seems greener, it is time you look within and find out exactly where you might be going wrong.

Believe it or not, our choices in life affect our happiness a lot. Yes, luck comes into play too but it is our habits and decisions that opens up certain doors while close the others.

So, in case you are now wondering what exactly it is that regular women like you do to stay happy and satisfied with life, here is a list of some answers to that question. Women who are happy in life.

How to be a happy woman? Women who still have friends from kindergarten are the happiest people. It is said that women who have BFFs can navigate through life’s challenges more easily.

t is truly rare that a woman gets married to her high school boyfriend. Having a few relationships before settling down is common but happy women break up nicely ?and don’t bear grudges or get vindictive.

They simply get over any kind of bitterness a relationship could have left behind and move on quickly. They also avoid carrying the emotional baggage of the past relationship because they are not the kinds to sit and sulk over things that could have been.

A happy woman is a pleasure to be with.

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