The Happy Couple – How Opposites Attract

A Couple: Two individuals of the same sort considered together. In this narrative, couple is only one example, a representative index for all things.

A single individual, alone, cannot be a couple.

Life is energy and vibration. Through coupling, energy is created via The Law of Polarity (Reverse Polarities). ?

The Law of Polarity is?the theory that everything in the universe has a dual nature (duality). The things that represent opposites are, in reality, the proverbial two sides of the same coin. In our three-dimensional reality, one does not exist without the other. As the earth has opposite poles, North and South, so too do all things life. Love and hate, hot and cold, up and down, left and right, forward and backward, all coexist.

The dualities denoted in the Law of Polarity manifest in all things including our thoughts, feelings, energies, and our state of being. It is this stated contrast between the two extremes (opposites) that creates energy/vibration. It is this contrast that results in the energy that attracts or detracts the life and the things you want.

The contrasting of these poles results in the attainment or lack of fulfillment of one’s life’s ambitions, desires, and achievements. For many, the contrast (the vastness between the two poles) results in angst and stress. For example, someone who is experiencing lack when it comes to family relationships, friends, finances, or fun may feel hopelessness, stress, and fear due to the resulting energy (contrast) creating instability. In such instances, the focus on lack creates more lack and more fear. The energy itself repels all that one wants, moving the individual further away from what they seek as it applies to family relationships, friends, finances, and fun.

Lack and abundance are a couple. Poor and wealthy are a couple. Happy and sad are a couple. Bored and engaged are a couple. Freezing cold and hot and humid are a couple. All are bound and unified by the laws of physics. All coexist yet cannot exist without the other.

Through the understanding of duality, it becomes easier to attract what one wants in life, as one sees that all things are part and parcel of the same spectrum. Here is where one realizes that their lack of strong family relationships is on the same exact spectrum as a strongly bonded family. Lack of friendships is on the same spectrum as close friendships. Lack of finances is on the same spectrum as extreme wealth. A shortage of fun is on the same spectrum as an abundance of fun. Everything in life is simply a variation on a spectrum.

Once one understands this spectrum, it is possible to influence the energy that is created by the contrast between the poles at either end of that spectrum. For example, by turning the contrast from negative energy to positive energy (instead of fear perhaps gratitude) one begins to start sliding toward the other pole.

?The paradox of dualities has been expressed since the consciousness of mankind in many forms. As above, so below. The yin and the yang of ancient Chinese philosophy denote this very paradox, dark and light, negative and positive. The image denotes how seemingly opposite or contrary forces are complementary, interconnected, and interdependent. In other words, dark cannot exist without light and vice versa, in all things.

What is interesting about the Law of Polarity is that it becomes easier to see where that energy is created. The key is in the contrast. That contrast in and of itself can be utilized to change the energy so as to attract more of what one wants. Thus, if you are lacking family, friends, finances, or fun, focus your gratitude on the fact that you are already on the train track needed to achieve your dreams. You are simply at the wrong end of the track and need only to change your energy to get to the other side (the other pole). Just add some yellow to your red and you are now onto shades of orange. Keep doing that and you will eventually get to bright yellow.

When experiencing sadness in life, consider how it is you know that you are sad. What are you comparing it to? You only know sadness because you have experienced the opposite pole, happiness. Thus, unlocking the key to happiness involves influencing your energy in all things between the poles. In other words, the key to happiness means understanding that it’s extremely important to engage the couple as a whole.

It is essential to have a harmonious relationship with your opposite.?