Happiness matters always

Happiness only matters for one thing some of us may she is in a small, others may see it in the most important thing anyone could ever do in their life or on this planet. By bringing happiness in unique and creative ways and making each day adventure some surprise then by giving everything that you were one and having a partner or loved one that does the same in return you experience true unconditional love.

And something that I've had today to experience a couple times in life but because of my own issues of growing up in an environment where I received unconditional love and then it disappeared and I have difficulties in being able to trust. I then tend to patch up with partners that desperately seek unconditional love and experience it temporarily but as they approach it are filled with fear and run away which is a very specific condition that many people suffer from and spend their entire lives searching for but unwilling to be vulnerable enough to experience the most beautiful Love that you can trust and know that there is love coming to you every day in the same way you give it and desire

Devoting our lives to the discovery of all The subtle and little things and substantial gifts allow you to receive a sense of gratitude and joy that is true happened in its finest qualities. It is really quite simple and only requires to briefly imagine what would bring you happiness and things that you can do that can relieve stress from those you love. And we know what it takes to bring comfort and to remove things that get in the way you guys is something that we both appreciate and as long as we know how it's supposed to work it's very easy to give and an automatic reaction that allows us to receive.

As many of us have grown up in dysfunctional homes where we were not taught how to give and receive unconditional love we don't know that it only requires a small amount of communication and feedback to set boundaries, and ask for what we need. Since it is identical to what we want it's easy to give there for happiness is within reach for all of us. Nothing really matters if you really think about it. Everything really only matters if it somehow affects one's subjective need/want to continue with his/her life.

If one's life was to be compared to a roller coaster ride then we can rephrase the question as: Why would would having an enjoyable riding experience matter? Well, if we take into the account that life is somewhat of an experience that one never chose to partake in -- we're pretty much tossed into this life rather randomly as far as anyone can tell, then really the only way to quantify our want to survive is to make the ride as enjoyable as possible.

If life is game we never chose to play and we're afraid of what would happen if we were to ever cease to exist, then the most practical way to way to spend our time here is to seek things/activities that brings us this "happiness". Essentially if you're tossed onto a roller coaster ride randomly with seemingly no objective purpose, then the ride should (subjectively speaking) be somewhat enjoyable.

We basically have four dimensions to persuade somebody into or against something, which are literal meaning of language, logic, facts, values. We will do something probably just because somebody describe the task nicely. Your fascination to his words promotes you to do the job. This is the first level of persuasion which is "language". The second dimension is prior to "language" which is logic.

People will do something because they believe it's the best choice to do under their logical consideration. However, the third dimension is even more prior to logic, which is the fact. One will find his logic incorrect provided that the fact demonstrates an entirely different consequence than his expectation. Therefore, we are able to see that lots of people utilize examples and facts to persuade someone into doing something. Nonetheless, the highest dimension is values.

In Chinese culture, there is an epigram indicating that one would never collaborates with another person if they hold different values. This is also the reason for people's resistance to do something although the persuader has exerted tremendous efforts to use not only reasons but also facts. Sharing different philosophies with another person, one will find difficulty in agreeing with each other even if the reason is nice.

Knowing that the values is the highest dimension, you may possibly understand the significance of happiness. If you are against something, which means you are not satisfied or happy with something, you will probably refuse to do it. That's the meaning of happiness, the real reason that manipulate your decision. Cheers!