Happiness is not Free

Do you want to be Happy?

Well, are you ready to pay a price for it?

If the answer to both the above is YES, then this article is for you.

The amazing world that we are part of is full of excellent surroundings as well as beautiful emotions.

Some emotions like Anger, Jealousy, Hatred, Pity, Fear, Lust, Greed are negative. While Happiness, Abundance, Freedom, Gratitude, Love, Joy, Generosity are positive. We should do everything possible to think about the second set of emotions, and the first set of emotions will automatically disappear from our lives. Is that Good or Great?

I thought you said Great. So let's jump into it.

This article is focussed on the emotion of happiness. As I said before, if you want to be happy, you have to pay a price to achieve your state of happiness. 

While some people say happiness is something that you are born with, I would say that we need to create our own happiness and you have to pay price for that.

Let me tell you what price you need to pay. Actually I am going to give you a full blown menu of the options. You can choose any one or two or all of the items from the Starters, Entrees, and Deserts sections in this amazing menu.

It's possible that by accident, you may have created misunderstanding in the minds of lots of people and they don't want to talk to you anymore. Make a list of all the people who belong to that list. Also write how much impact they have in your life - in the past, in the current times or the effect they might have in future. Just think of one person on the top of that list with maximum impact. If no person comes into your mind, just take a pause. Stop reading this chapter/article and take a break. Resume only when you find that person (let’s call that person as “person X” or just “X”) in your mind.

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Welcome back from the break. I believe that by now, you know who person X is - it’s the person with whom you want to patch up - and not patching up will deteriorate the important matters in your life.

It’s possible that Person X is obsessed with you and you feel that he/she keeps on passing negative energy towards you. Maybe you are obsessed with X too - and you keep doing the negative energy transfer to X. Maybe, both of you have been doing this to each other.

In either case, it's time for you to ask for forgiveness. First in your inner self, and then explicitly to X over the phone or in person.  

The cheapest price for happiness is just simply thinking positive about the person X. Off course, you will then be in a mood to make a phone call, feeling thankful for what he/she have done in your life. Additionally or alternatively, you may say sorry for something that you may have done or not done, expressing gratitude and saying thank you. If you prefer to meet the person X face to face, you can give him/her a tight hug, a kiss or both - depending upon your comfort level and being sensitive to other person’s comfort level as well.

Maybe that person X is at absolute fault without any scope for a debate. That’s why you created a wall between the two of you - with or without the person X knowing about it. Irrespective of who has created the wall, the fact is - the situation is bothering you. Otherwise you would not have chosen that person as person X - and therefore would not have cropped into your mind at all. 

So who is responsible to break the barriers between the two of you? It’s you, the reader of this article. It's time for YOU to demolish this wall and break all the other barriers which are coming in the way between the two of you. 

Think about the possibilities that the two of you can create when the two of you are in communication and what are the great things you two can create together which none of you can create separately. 

So drop your ego, pick up your phone and call that important person X to welcome him/her back into your life. Just stop reading this article for a moment till you are done with that call, Go ahead and do it NOW.

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Did you make the call? 

What did you say to X? 

What did person X say? 

How was the experience? 

Did it heal the situation?  

Just send the answers to all these questions - along with the situation to me at [email protected]. It’s possible that the other person is not on this earth any more. Maybe the person is on another time zone or another emotional plane.

That's OK. The very fact that you thought about that person - in order to be in communication and ask for forgiveness - will be sufficient to communicate that energy tp person X. In fact, you can choose to write an email or a letter to them as a second alternative or additional tool.

Once you are back together - you will come to know that the other person was also thinking about you - and was waiting for your call all the while. Now you ask X for a face to face meeting and what you guys can do together. Maybe involve other common friends or family members. Have a Party, Go for a Movie or Pub or a Restaurant. Just celebrate the reunion. 

Believe me, it will give immense happiness to both of you. Did you notice that the other person was also equally eager to patch up with you and was feeling nervous to approach you and therefore waiting for initiating this process?

Maybe you did not commit any mistake that person x did all the faults. So what? Maybe the other person has created a heinous crime against you. You have difficulty in forgiving that person. 

Maybe you don't want to talk to that person X. Ever. Don't worry. Person X will get the punishment automatically for the crime he/she has committed, through the law of the land or through the Karma Philosophy. In this particular case, you still have the option of forgiving that person silently in the inner world, if not explicitly in the outer world. 

After this process, you will not be obsessed with that criminal anymore. The criminal created havoc in your life just once. But by not closing the chapter, you are repeating that havoc for yourself every time you think about that person X. That's why, it's in your own interest and in the interest of your happiness that you delete that person from your mind by forgiving him/her. Otherwise that pain will continue to give you anxiety and stress throughout the rest of your life. Such people don’t deserve to live in your mind and create illness in your body. Better close this and move forward.

The very act of forgiveness will create abundance and freedom in your heart and mind. You will emerge as a stronger and happier person, if you do all the things that I have recommended above. 

That’s the end of this article. 

Now I have a personal message for my VIPs about what I do. BTW, all the readers of this article are my VIPs. Interested to know more about the message? Just keep reading. 

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My personal message for my VIPs.

I have created a Linkedin Group and a facebook Group, called CK’s VIP Club. I want to nurture all my VIP Guests on how to create abundance and how to get freedom.

The freedom could be from your boss, from your worries, from your bad habits, from your enemies, from the traffic, from the nuisance of your spouse, kids, parents, friends or colleagues.

If you are in a full time job, and you don’t like some of the aspects of it, you have no choice but to perform all the dull, difficult, challenging, underpaid, uninteresting, repetitive, routine and boring tasks assigned by your boss. I call that as slavery. You think you have no choice and no alternative and no say in the matter, because your job is at stake and you need money to run your house, pay EMI’s, pay for the expenses towards your children, parents and other family members. So you keep living life like a stupid dumbass, mediocre person, a slave or like a robot. You definitely need freedom from that slavery. I am here to provide you a plan which will work towards your freedom from this jail.

Again if you are working, you definitely have to travel to your workplace and some other locations to comply with the demands of your job and therefore you have to face the traffic. I am here to provide you a route towards your freedom from this annoying trafic.

I want to propose a business for you which you can start from home so that there is a freedom from the boss, freedom from the traffic and then you will in that process have freedom from the stress and anxiety.

You will also be able to create abundance of wealth, abundance of health, and abundance of happiness. First I want you to be sure that this business idea is such that you are going to spend the rest of your life doing this with full passion, full vigor and full enthusiasm. 

So just start a small trial run. Therefore initially, you must start it on a part time basis. Just spare an hour or two on a daily basis. Wait - I heard you saying you don’t have time for this along with your full time job or your existing business. I propose cutting down your social media time, or TV time, or newspaper time or magazine time or entertainment time.

This new business will be using your existing expertise, your existing skills, hobbies, interests, passions, or something that you have never done before but the very idea of imagining it converting into your full time profession gives you joy and ecstasy. 

I will give you a step by step formula if you continue to follow me in various social media. I want to contribute towards your happiness, fulfillment, success and abundance. Feel free to follow my blogs, my videos, my podcasts and my FB Lives, FB posts, Linkedin Articles and Linkedin posts. Just register for this webinar.

Or just get in touch with me to include you in my VIP Club and also tell me if you did actually call person X to seek forgiveness. And what was the response from the other side?

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To your Success, to your Freedom and to Your Abundance.

Love you

CK