Happiness comes from your own actions

We all know that happiness is not a item which we can buy from others and nobody can give us happiness and we cannot get our happiness from others because it comes from our only positive internal energy. Self-motivation is also the most important thing which enhances our confidence and if these qualities we have with us, then we can always become happy and do whatever we want to do without seeking for anybody’s help.

I know that if we can help other person, it also gives us peace of mind and our heart gets filled with positive energy. This is just a point that others can gives us happiness only in this case when we help others who need our help. I think only in this case we will be happy by others but every time we will be happy by our self motivation and self positivism.

Happiness is what you find out of the little things that happen around you. It is what comes from within you from your heart and from your own actions taken by you. This is my small piece of advice for you, to wake up with a smile, to have the heart of a child, to cherish every moment that comes to you and find happiness in doing those little things which make you happy like gardening, watering the plants, playing with your pets, walking your dog, jogging in the garden, trekking up the mountains and so on.

When you are happy after achieving something, you are happy because of your own actions. You are responsible for your actions then the happiness you attained will be solely in control of yourself. You want someone else like friends, family, colleagues, neighbours or others, for celebration, to be praised, to get recognition. When you help others and feels happy, the exact reason is during that instance you are hoping and expecting help from others, you are appeasing you own self.

When you are in relationships and feel happy, in that situation you are acting selfish because you are expecting love, care from others to fulfil your emotional and physical needs. Love without expectation is worthless. Zest is the happiness comes from your own inner self. Others are only for fulfil your emotional, physical and mental needs.

One could be more happier if he does his interest of work. The work that satisfies you gives a different level of happiness.We always think that other people can give us a charm of happiness and when you don’t get such it leads you the disappointment which then hurts you more and more. While saying this I do not mean happiness as an external entity rather I see happiness as a whole phenomena spread all around and within.

With all the good you feel and do, bringing happiness to yourself and to others, you also happen to gleam with contentment while receiving a thank you note or a remark. That is happiness! And a beautiful person chose to send it to you in form of compliments, regards, actions, helps and many more. Therefore, as much as I believe that being happy is a conscious decision I make in my life, I also receive this happiness from others and I am grateful for all the happiness coming my way from these beautiful people out there.Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit