Guilt, a self-serving avoidance program!

Guilt, a self-serving avoidance program!

Guilt is self-serving, the avoidance program of the EGO, ‘yes, another Story to add to your already heavy bag of shit!’

Where did it originate from? This is my intuitive take as I am really not interested in researching as much is no longer relevant to the times we live in. It is CLEAR it up now time, no more dwelling on the past.

I see guilt as being served a sentence, a placard worn around the neck for others to JUDGE you for all you have done wrong! Perhaps, strung and quartered and had rotten apples thrown at you in the town square?

Do the time to fit the crime and THEN WIPE the SLATE CLEAN!!

2021- the Year of Redemption!

I LIVE moment to moment as a Free Sovereign being that lives in integrity, presence and raw truth. The inner critic (the judge) healed, loved and embodied as I AM. Yes, the inner critic was the inner gremlin in self-protect, the wounded inner child screaming out to be loved. I own my choices and honour FREE will.


So, WHY does GUILT carry so much weight?

It is used to either JUSTIFY your pain and the story you feed yourself OR to further wound the other that You wish to pay for their mistake!?

Either way, it will eat you alive and suffocate your Soul.

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Aww, look at the cute doggy... this will be MOST of your responses, as you also use the PUPPY Dog eyes to get what you want or AVOID the consequence of the action. This is a game of manipulation and a mask of GUILTY PLEASURES!! The dog looks guilty and it will have learnt this from the adult. Switch off now, if you wish to stay in the LIE you are living.

  • Using Guilt to JUSTIFY your pain and the story
  • OR to hurt/ wound the other - to make them pay for their mistake!?

Both stink of arrogance and entitlement. Yes, thinking your life is so worse than others, stuck in complaining, blinded by your righteousness and doing fuck all the SHIFT it.


Yes, this takes COURAGE, and a level of humility, to SEE it. This require JUMPING OVERBOARD into the shit you are hiding from, yes under the surface of the masks.


Look at society, the finger pointing at one another or the shrinking in your skin to hide you lustful and forbidden desires. No one cares for your opinion or self-importance. I see the looks out of the corners of others eyes, it is drowning in shame, guilt, sin and disgust... and it is not mine!

I don't care what your sexual habits are, i've seen it all from years of working as a R.N in the Emergency department. yes, your dirty little secrets that you hide from others, and this also goes for the food you place in your mouth.

I don't care as it has ZERO impact on me! I care about Souls breaking Free of these CHAINS!


It is time to GROW Up.

It is time to take responsibility for your life.

As RESPONSIBILITY is the only path to FREEDOM.


There is a putrid ocean of shit that many of You are swimming in, and you look to one another for help and the eyes that scream, “Save me!’

The titanic is sinking and perhaps some don't make it, this is the cycle of life.

My point is when you are in it and surrounded by others that do it, then you will drown one another and so the co-dependency continues and it’s a toxic ocean of SHIT!!

I don't save you, I show you a way to learn to swim and be VICTORIOUS from within!


A Putrid concoction!

Mixed in with the GUILT, is a faithful lover called BLAME and the GUILLOTINE of GUILT. They are all in bed with one another, call one out and the others will come to rescue, as to expose them is to feel EXPOSED!

All of which will throw the other that stands in their essence under the bus and on the inside the wounds are seething with angry pus and the scab that never heals.


I am pulling off the band-aid, incase you missed the memo. I am DONE with the blind leading the blind, it is verging on non-sickle ridick-ulous. Yes, I am CALLING it out.

Men, if you desire a relationship with a woman that stands in her raw feminine sensual essence then you will have to be prepared to do the inner work! She will walk alone in her completeness until she is met by a man that is READY to meet her which requires running the gauntlet for the prize.

It is time for the bar to be RAISED for all...


Many men are sitting the fence, scared, lost and burnt and I am here to guide and mentor how to IGNITE the FIRE of PASSION within. If you had an affair, so what!

If you are still punishing self, STOP!

If you are still feeding the Dragon, (your x that is acting like a bitch) stop complaining about it, as you are feeding IT! See a bigger picture!!


Yes, you may feel hurt and in pain, this is a PLACE to begin. It is no bed of roses and it requires getting REAL and removing the band-aid of horse shit.

MENTORING Space and 1:1 deep dive sessions with me- to CLEAR up the 3D games of limitation!! This will be a requisite to be taught the HIGHER Consciousness stuff.

You cannot fly when you are still CRAWLING or being spoon fed in submission!


I was the master of VICTIM games and was the greatest manipulative C U # T you can imagine. I was a fighter so gave as good as I got and most times came off worst (size makes a difference) and yes, I would draw blood. I've played all sides and mastered them all, so this is great for You as the transition is FASTER, so less suffering. yes, it will bring some pain and it requires transmuting into STRENGTHS.


I see all sides, so don’t pull the I am an empath, and x was the narcissist BS!

The truth is, you are two of the same. Yes, the EXTREMES meet and fall into the co-dependent mess they call relationship. Agreed, no one deserves to experience abuse and there will have been a contract before you came back into this lifetime, to have the experience to awaken the medicine from within. Both attract one another, as both sensitive as the other. The RESPONSES may differ and believe me (don’t, reflect on your own actions!) you can be just as nasty once you peel back the layers.

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The intention is to all HEAL and rise beyond to see the Game you were being played in and the one you continue to perpetuate!

You are the ONE that rolls the dice of your life.


All these programs are 3D, the games of the PRISM and the ultimate PRISON you create for YOU. I am not going to waste any more time on this, other than, reach out my hand and say:

  • Today, you have a choice, Ask: 'Who is the guilt serving?'
  • Book a 1:1 session or join my group and be mentored by me.
  • Today, you can see the game you played.
  • Today, you can connect to start to OWN it all
  • Today, you can begin to take RESPONSIBILITY for your life.
  • Today, forgive yourself and stop feeding the guilt.


Connect to explore beyond the safe zone that is like the froth on coffee that has ZERO substance. I like to go deep where the true substance of SPIRIT is felt and You get to be free from the Inside out!


Zoe-Anna

#lifeexperiences #guilt #forgiveness #mentoring #redemption

Mark Paterson

Providing a great customer experience to enable continued growth in your Company through photography.

3 年

An interesting read Zoe-Anna, certainly given me a new direction to look at in the "healthiness" of my relationship. May be time to re-evaluate a few things???

Nice picture, hahaha.

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