A Guide to Transparent Questions: Why Am I Asking This Question?
Tom O'Leary
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The first question to ask of any question is “Why am I asking this question?”
We may think it is to genuinely seek new information and insights but in practice it is all too often to simply confirm existing beliefs and biases.
If we are to truly master the art of transparent questions, we must become aware of potential biases and assumptions in the questions themselves.
Remember, how a question is framed and worded conditions how it will be the answered.
To make the process more tangible let’s take a real-world question:
Is President Biden too old to run for a second term?
Keep the question in mind as we go through the steps. We will come back to it at the end so that you can see the process in action.
A) Identify Biases: Does the question presuppose a certain answer?
This is incredibly commonplace and reasonably easy to spot because the words are out in the open. Once you start paying attention, you may be surprised how many pre-filled questions you notice. I’ve particularly noticed this with multi-part questions where the second part conditions the first. Biases may well be unconscious and ingrained rather than a deliberate attempt to skew the question and yet they remain biases.
B) Evaluate Assumptions: What must be true for this question to make sense?
Every question assumes something. For example, the above question assumes that a question should make sense. To whom? Another way of asking this question is: What does this question take for granted?
Unearthing assumptions are really important because the question may well be based on a wholly false premise.
C) Understand Worldviews: How might the background or experiences of the person asking have influenced the question?
Questions are not asked in a vacuum but rather within a shared reality shaped by societal norms, beliefs and values. Even though absolutely neutral on their face, questions often reflect the worldviews or cultural perspectives of the person asking.
For example, “Would you like tea or coffee?” seems innocuous. And yet, I have lived in cultures where binary questions are almost the default. Over time, this dramatically limits what people can think and embeds binary thinking (good / bad, one of us / one of them).
This particular question could be made cleaner by asking “What can I offer you to drink?”. It still assumes that the person wants something to drink but is possibly an acceptable trade-off compared with the purer “Would you like something to drink?” (Yes / No). If Yes, ask “What would you like to drink?”
D) Cleanse the Language
If you identify biases, assumptions or worldviews, try to ask the question in a more neutral and objective manner. This is about making the unconscious conscious.
E) Decouple the Questioner
John Rawls, a legal theorist, developed the idea of the Veil of Ignorance. If you were to be born into a society but didn’t know anything about your place in it, how would you construct it to ensure it was a just society? What rights should every citizen have?
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Using the same principle, analyse the question as if it were coming from a third party with no interest in the outcome. Try to strip away any cues that might tie it to a specific person or perspective. See the example at the end to see this step in action.
F) Question the Process: What might we have lost sight of in this process?
This is about reflecting on the process rather than on the question. This is to assess whether the process may have been based on faulty assumptions.
Also, let’s not forget that biases and assumptions can provide valuable insights and help us understand how different people engage with and understand the world.
Removing all biases and assumptions may strip questions of their context, making them overly abstract or even meaningless. And yet that in itself is interesting information.
G) What Purpose Does the Question Serve?
Questions are in many ways statements or, in other words, answers to other questions. It can be really helpful to get a sense for the bigger questions the question may be trying to answer. This is therefore about placing the question in its broader context and understanding its implications.
Example: Is President Biden too old to run for a second term?
Interested in improving the questions you ask? This is just one of many questioning tools and techniques you can explore on my website.
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