With a Growth Mindset, You Will Be Tomorrow Where Your Thoughts Take You

I'm lucky to have so many incredible people like YOU, in my life, from all walks of life and all around the world. Recently, I've had some conversations with a few of you who are struggling to make sense of everything happening around us. There's no denying that it can feel overwhelming with so much negativity and conflict out there, both globally and personally.

There is a way forward

I want to share the teachings of my mentor and good friend Chin Teik who has really helped me navigate these challenges. He often reminds me of the power of our mindset. He says, "You are today where your thoughts have brought you." It's a simple but powerful reminder that our thoughts shape our reality. And considering that around 80% of our daily 60,000 thoughts tend to be negative, it’s crucial to be mindful of what we’re telling ourselves.

One of the key aspects Chin Teik emphasises is the power of positive thought. This concept is not just theoretical—it's something we see in action all the time, particularly in the world of sports. Take the athletes preparing for and competing in the Paris Olympics as an example. Many of them use visualisation techniques to mentally rehearse their performances, picturing themselves crossing the finish line first, nailing that perfect routine, or hitting the target spot-on. This isn’t just about imagining success; it's about training their minds to believe in their potential and preparing their bodies to execute what they've visualised. This mental practice plays a crucial role in their success, showing how powerful positive thinking can be when paired with effort and determination.

Chin Teik also talks a lot about the difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset. With a fixed mindset, we get stuck thinking that our intelligence, abilities, and talents are set in stone, which can leave us feeling like we’re stuck where we are. But with a growth mindset, we see these things as learnable and improvable with effort. As he says, "With a growth mindset, you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you." This means that even when things are tough, we can keep growing and becoming better versions of ourselves.

The choice is really ours. We can either let the negativity around us weigh us down, or we can focus on what we can control—our actions, our responses, and our mindset. By choosing to cultivate a growth mindset, focusing on positive thoughts, and visualising our own success, we not only find a way to balance our lives but also start seeing the good in others and in ourselves.

And remember this: Don’t let a poor leader define you, and don’t let losing your job define you. Believe in yourself, learn from life, see the beauty and love around you and with a growth mindset, get excited about your future.

You’re incredible, you’re loved, your not alone and your future is very bright.

I hope your having a great summer, peace and love to you all.

Bob