Grow inside and bloom outside, listen to your heart

You should always listen to your heart if you want to take the decision that Will make you the happiest. When we listen to our minds we usually do it to take the wisest decision although we may be sacrificing some things along the way. When we listen to our hearts we are a lot of times taking bold decisions that are outside of our comfort zone, yet they feel right. Regardless of your choice-listening to your heart, or listening to your brain, be sure you are not just listening to other people’s opinions because it is always better to know that your decision is yours than to have taken a decision because someone else told you to.

I should admit that my ‘self’ comprises both heart and brain/mind. They are in harmony on more than 99% of occasions when I have to consider something and/or take decision. Yes. At times there is intense desire to follow what heart is saying. Although I try to convince my brain or mind to tune itself accordingly without me fighting the situation. In fact when we try to adopt a religious approach, things become easy. I have never been troubled; there could have been exceptions but my way of taking quick decisions in favour of religious 'Dos and Dont's' to help me avoid any conflicting scenario. If I say I am lucky in that sense, that will not be an exaggeration really speaking.

Since our childhood, we have been trained to approach by logic or rationality in decision making, that refers to listening to your mind in most of the cases. But behind that, there is always a voice emanating from our heart which forces us to take a detour. This inclination is usually pulled down. Actually, I am not into ‘listening with your heart’ in all the cases but sometimes it may prove to be a better decision driver.

Listening with your heart gives a more lucid rationale because it gives force to a voice that is constantly bickering with your inner self. You also want that thing to happen because you will get happiness from it. It may free you from the ongoing circular motion of your thought process. A decision made by listening with your heart won't give you any remorse if that conclusion fails at some point in time. It is based out of personal experience because once you are into that vibe, you are mentally prepared to face any consequences that may follow.

The level of joy felt after any accomplishment propelled by the vibes of your heart is of totally different origin and is unmatched.I personally feel that one should get into this thought process once in his life to get a different experience because life is too short to play safe. You never know what your heart is about to offer you.

You call it an easy or fail safe choice when you know that when you take this choice, you will have no or minimum risk of things going wrong but this choice does not excites you or actually makes you bored. Another risky Choice is in deep inside yourself, you are really excited to take this choice but you do not want to take this choice as for number of reasons, say how people around you will take it? or how will things turn around? or do I have to take this heavy work? etc etc . This is want you or your heart wants to do it but you are afraid or lazy to it. It is the final call you need to take when taking decision by your heart.

When you make a decision, you should listen to your heart i.e what will be my ideal choice, if I am not afraid or lazy. Surely, This choice is a not a easy choice but it will make your life more interesting and meaningful. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre