Green Wall Lessons: Enjoying the old and the new
Rachel Kochany
Creating value for Senior Leaders through Peer Support Forums | Thinking Partner and ACC Coach | Working alongside you and your teams as you reconnect with what matters most and brings the greatest impact
What’s one way to encourage yourself in the midst of Covid 19, winter, and extended lockdown? How can I find inspiration, new hope and colour in the midst of testing times?
Like many I’m finding the current season challenging. However one thing that has continued to encourage me is our green wall, now ten months old.
I’m enjoying how the wall has elements of continuity, amidst the changes which are inherent with any living thing. I love the way the perennial plants keep going through sun and rain, snow and wind. That they are rooted and watered enough to sustain life, and grow just the right amount each season.
That those with long roots expand into the available space and soil, and set themselves up for further growth over a longer period. Quietly and determinedly getting on with it. Whatever the weather is doing they are generally strong enough to reach out for the necessary nutrients to thrive.
These amazing plants know just what to do to in order to do well, to rejuvenate. To rest when needed. So that they go on growing and giving pleasure into future seasons. It is in their very nature to do that. I find that amazing – in the same way that I am astonished how birds know where to migrate back to instinctively.
I like how plants you would expect to see in different habitats – such as ferns and heather – can adapt to new settings – such as our green wall. And settle there quite happily. Doing their bit to sustain life, and give enjoyment to us, our neighbours, and those passing by in need of an inward smile or happy thought.
And it reminded me of some things about life, and work and being. So I’m sharing these here. I’d love to hear your thoughts too, and to have a bigger conversation about this.
1. The effort to plan in advance, put down roots, and draw on strength we need is worth it.
We’ve become quite used to an instant culture where we can get what we need when we need it.
It can still be quite countercultural for me to plant bulbs way in advance of when I will enjoy their blooms. Or to pick out plants that may seem less exciting than the brights of spring or summer.
It takes thought to imagine for the future, and make the investment
now that will reap rewards later on. And some faith in a way that the effort spent now will be worth it later.
It takes focus and patience with ourselves to dig deep when challenges come that threaten how we thought life would be, or how we would like it to be. And to revisit our root source, our inner resources again, when we feel buffeted by the storms – both literally and metaphorically.
However, I’m seeing that the refocus and the effort is worth it. And I am nourished when I return again to what really matters to me, where I draw my strength and refreshment. Be that memories; faith; or reading that sustains, and provides a bigger picture of the overall journey. All of these things give perspective in the midst of this current series of pinch-points.
It’s interesting to me that when I take time to look inward, upwards, and sometimes backwards – I am given renewed strength for now, and also for moving forwards. When I remind myself of my bigger and future purpose – of partnering with folk to release potential in people and organisations – then this spurs me to take action to move forward. Getting myself in the position to take that helicopter view again – I see new possibilities, appreciate the longer term picture, and feel refreshed - so that I keep walking in the way I want to go.
In these pandemic times I find it encouraging, and occasionally surprising, just how much help and support and connection is out there if you just look. Sometimes it feels like the equivalent of the plant that expands out just 5 cm to the left or right.
2. We are much more intuitive and connected than we think. We sometimes just need to do that new thing and see how it goes.
Just as a plant finds the space to expand into – I reckon that we find what’s needed when we are open to do that. And it might come from unexpected sources. I picture it a little like a treasure hunt for adults – it’s there if we just look and give it a try.
I heard recently that we as humans are hardwired to self protect, and to form habits that feel safe to us.
That certainly seems sensible and serves an important purpose – perhaps it is a little like being taught as children not to touch things that are too hot. And yet this very protection can make us instinctively less open to change. Sometimes even change for the better.
And I do believe that we grow to know what works for us – what fits and doesn’t fit with our particular outlook, season, and set of needs. Those inner nudges that say – ‘this is the time’; or ‘try this you'll like it' – are given to us for a reason.
I’m learning to know and trust that what suits me may not suit others – and that’s fine. And to trust that more. I guess we all evolve to know ourselves more – and then are further enabled to take the new step, and look round the next corner.
Or maybe to reach out and get the help we need so we have the courage to walk the extra mile, and look around the next corner. Size up the possibilities – and give it a go.
My musings over, I’d love to hear your thoughts. In the meantime, grow well.
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4 年I love this quote from your article Rachel, "When we take time to look inward, upwards, and sometimes backwards – we are given renewed strength for now, and also for moving forwards." So true! Sometimes we're in such a rush to move forward that we forget to take the time looking inward, upward and backward to find our true path ahead. Lovely photos of the green wall too. I'd like to see more over time in each of your 'Green Wall' series as they're very relaxing. Patrick
Executive Coach | Leadership Development | Diverse Talent Programmes
4 年I love your green wall Rachel, it’s looking spectacular, even in the depths of winter when we don’t expect to see much colour. Similarly, my garden continues to be a source of inspiration. It’s incredible what’s growing if we take time to look ... bulbs pushing through the cold earth, hellebores blooming, cyclamen too and so much more. When I purposefully go looking with full attention, I notice something different each time as it’s otherwise easy to see it as unchanged and the same as I expect to see. And each new encounter gives me hope on these otherwise dull days.
Lloyd’s Broker focused on Specie & Jewellers Block Insurance.
4 年For me, like all of us, it’s being able, and being grateful that I can get out and about to enjoy the Kent countryside. I used to do a lot of driving for business and would complain about the delays I’d experience on the motorways, in particular the M25. Having reflected this week on the importance of human interaction even being stuck on a motorway for a couple of hours surrounded by other human beings in cars and the mundane and normality of it made me feel nostalgic. I’d hope, when we are once again allowed to travel, not complain about the ‘things’ I took for granted or saw as an inconvenience.