Grace – the elusive leadership trait
Elephant Journal Feb 2021.

Grace – the elusive leadership trait

Over Easter, with its message of service and sacrifice, I decided to revisit Grace, that most elusive trait of great leadership.?I found two book reviews that show us how to build our grace and the need for graceful leaders in our VUCA world.?We will see that grace is a DIY job — leaders need to grow, model, and commit to it.

What is grace? Some call it class but this is only a sheen with grace being a deeper, fundamental element. Forbes writes “Grace is the act of being open to empathy and compassion (allowing) people to reveal more of themselves and feel safe doing so. Leading with grace benefits our organizations. When people feel psychologically safe and valued, at work and in their lives, they bring their best selves …give their discretionary effort.”[i]

From childhood we are taught to be graceful winners and losers. We learn more about ourselves through adversity vs success thereby developing our grace. For leaders, grace requires perspective beyond ourselves to a greater purpose. ?It is linked to service hence we expect it from our senior leaders. We see it with the likes of Angela Merkel and Jacinda Ardern; struggling to find many others. Help please!?

Building our GRACE: Generosity, Respect, Action, Compassion, and Energy

In John Baldoni’s Grace: A Leader’s Guide to a Better Us[ii] we are shown how to build our grace.?He states “we may like to do the right thing (from our values) but grace pushes us to act”.?Baldoni offers five perspectives with his acronym GRACE summarised here.

Generosity - Gracious people leverage themselves for to benefit others. Gracious leaders share time, knowledge, kudos and power with their teams and society. They give with a growth mindset. Adam Grant [iii]would categorise gracious people as ‘Givers’.

?Respect - Self-awareness opens the door to respect for others. Humility kicks in and hubris gets kicked out of play!

Action - Grace is an intentional action. Grace is often manifested in clarity of purpose and civility.?A graceful leader ensures civility in the workplace and across society. I would add this leads to a more open, safer place where feel free to express their best ideas, leading to greater prosperity. We certainly need that right now!

Compassion - Gracious people draw on their gratitude to enable their compassion.?History has great leaders who have shown exceptional forgiveness e.g. Gandhi, Mandela and Martin Luther King Jnr. In my coaching, I see leaders with a daily practice of listing three things they are grateful for. This constant gratitude awareness builds our capacity for compassion and well-being.

Energy - Grace requires energy. We draws energy from our positivity and our growth mindset.

?We may like to do the right thing but grace pushes us to act.

Baldoni covers a diversity of leaders, actionable behaviours, a self-assessment tool to check your grace and see where you can take it.?He asks us to see grace as a way of life and set a daily example.?

As grace declines so does regard for our leaders

In Professors Mark Dodgson’s and David Gann’s The Playful Entrepreneur [iv] they found many leading entrepreneurs didn’t rate highly on grace. ?They state the “robust personality” of Western business culture e.g. The Apprentice TV show’s slogan “You’re Fired”, means grace is barely considered. Across society, the less we see of grace, the less we regard our leaders.??

Beyond their entrepreneurs, the authors found many leaders capable of displaying great grace. They contend that in our VUCA world, problems are too complex to solve one company or I would contend, one nation, at a time. Collaboration is crucial for greater creativity and intuition to provide breakthroughs. We have seen Covid vaccines developed in record time with many teams cooperating and also competing.?Graceful leaders stimulate collaboration, they ‘grow the pie’ with their growth mindset.?

Dodgson and Gann found more female leaders recognized that competition doesn’t need to be a ‘zero-sum’ game. I’m reminded of Simon Sinek’s leadership advice for the ‘infinite game’ stating “that we will leave our organisations in better shape than we found them; organisations that inspire people to want to continue to build without us.”[v]?The authors give examples of graceful leaders, many of whom are pioneers across new industries, science and medicine.?We see that like any leadership quality, grace can be grown.?I’ve planted my seeds!?

Grace moves us towards finding agreement, to joining up our many divisions.?

Grace is the understanding that leaders don’t achieve much alone. Grace reduces the distance between us, intentionally leverages the positive, finds connections and promotes mutual success. Through grace we can find the agreement that already exists vs burning up energy and sadly relationships on our often passionately held and ultimately minor differences.?

Our public leaders often the lack courage to let us know who they really are; too ruled by opinion polls; too keen on power; too poorly skilled to wield it for the greater vs their tribe’s good.?They often play the small, ‘finite’ game.?We need leaders who help all win together where no one is left behind! ?

?Grace is inclusive and inspirational and need not be elusive. Grace is sorely needed today. ?Now to implement my improved GRACE plan!?

References

[i]?https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbeshumanresourcescouncil/2020/07/07/what-it-means-to-lead-with-grace/?sh=7636e89e5b47

[ii] John Baldoni, ‘Grace: A Leader's Guide to a Better Us’ review. https://www.leadershipnow.com/leadingblog/2019/07/grace_a_leaders_guide_to_a_bet.html

[iii] Adam Grant, ‘Give and Take’. https://www.adamgrant.net/book/give-and-take/

[iv] Mark Dodgson, Professor of Innovation Studies, The University of Queensland; David Gann, Pro-Vice-Chancellor, Oxford University, ‘The Playful Entrepreneur’ (Yale University Press). https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2019/02/most-leaders-are-missing-this-crucial-character-trait/?

[v] Simon Sinek’s Infinite Game. https://www.forbes.com/sites/workday/2019/04/30/simon-sinek-applying-the-infinite-game-mindset-to-business/?sh=173efc0033dd

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Craig Keary FAICD

CEO | NED | Board Advisor | Certified Chair | Growth, Turnaround & Restructuring | Financial Services | Asset and Wealth Management | Digital & FinTech | M&A | Asia

2 年

Michael Swinsburg thanks for sharing . Great insight

Giles Gunesekera OAM

Founder, Chief Executive Officer and PhD Candidate

2 年

Fantastic article Michael Swinsburg and a timely reminder for us all

Lisa Henderson

Transformational Group Executive | NED | Specializes in growth strategies | Digital | CMO

2 年

Great insights on the role of grace in leadership. As we watch the news feed every day, never has this important attribute been more important. Thank you for sharing this timely insight.

Gloria Saliba

HR Leadership | Organisational Transformation | People | Culture | Diversity | Developing Leadership Capability | Leaders of the Future | Executive Coaching | Mentor

2 年

Great article Michael - Grace is indeed an elusive leadership trait. When I think of the great leaders I’ve worked with across organisations who had this trait - I recall situations where grace was demonstrated during times of extreme pressure, adversity and uncertainty. Grace and humility generally go hand in hand.

Miranda Hewitt

Head of People Solutions at UniSuper (all things Talent Aquisition, Remuneration & Reward, HR Operations and Systems)

2 年

Thanks for sharing Michael , a great read. Certainly a trait that is rarely discussed but so often sets a leader apart, and their organisation too.

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