Goodbye Letter to a back stabber colleague??♀?
Dear Manager/Colleague,
I am leaving this company because of your dirty politics. Yes, you are succeeding because I don’t want anyone to do such things behind me, it’s affecting me and my mental stability. I am leaving not because you want me to leave but just because I am looking for my happiness and I don’t want to be part of such things while doing a job.
Are you happy now this is what you wanted just because you are insecure about your job and jealous of everything related to us?
You play dirty games with your colleagues. You always want us to do the things which are not good for our performance and if anyone asked you something you always let them know the half-truth so that we can make mistakes and you proved in front of everyone that old is the best. But I want to tell you one thing before leaving we are not “Alien” who came to your planet so that we can stay here and strip you out.
Now, you can stay here always with your job insecurities and jealousy with new bees who will get more than you are earning. Not like you, we are busy learning things which will improve our performance so that we can grow and for this we are looking for a good environment with good colleagues and more chances to grow and learn. You can continue with your never-ending game of politics. Your insecurities with others not only affect them but will also impact you and your mental peace negatively but you are not aware of it.
Do you know that you are stuck in a race of never-ending game of jealousy and insecurities?
By the way hats off to you and your courage in doing schemes with others with no fear of getting caught and confronting by others.
Are you happy now that me and the other people leaving but have you ever thought that we leave-we grow but instead of focussing your performance at work, you are paying more attention to such dirty work which is also affecting your personal life because you always thinking about your plotting even at your home and because of this you are going to face such issues:-
??You will not able to balance your work life because you always think of plotting
??Your insecurities lead to affect your mental health because you not to end stress, and anxiety and in the end, lead you to depression.
??You will miss the chance of living your life with friends and family because all you can do is think about any scheme.
??Nobody trust you in your professional life, once you will get caught and you don’t have friends to share your actual thought.
??Because of what’s going on you will get irritated easily and no one wants to talk with you even at your home you will lose your loved ones.
??Your performance will affect and because of this your growth will affect.
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??In a long run, you will be stuck with a similar task as you are always busy with your dirty politics and because of this you will not have time to learn.
And so on………………………………………………..
But think about it what we can achieve
??We will grow as we are always busy in learning new things.
??We will be able to maintain our work life balance.
??Happy environment of work leads us to be happy-Mentally and Physically both
??We will have many friends and we will share knowledge with no insecurities so that we can learn & grow.
??We will have our "Me-Time" to enjoy every moment of life.
Hope you will always busy with your plotting and scheming instead of improving your performance and watch us to grow from far away.
All the best
Regards
Your ex-colleague
sales
2 年Excellent post
Executive Head of Business Development (UK, Ireland & The Middle East)
2 年Surely, isn't it best just to leave? If ever you needed a reference, your referee can either choose to decline the request, or give you a 'satisfactory' reference ...they are free to glow & gush, saying fabulous things about you - but it's forbidden to write anything bad, no matter how true those comments might be. However, 'in confidence', or simply 'by accident' ...and most likely, anonymously, its possible that such a lengthy and acrimonious statement could well end up in front of an unintended recipient ...imagine how much pleasure that would give your ex-colleague! You simply would have no choice but to write off any reference that this employer might give. You are then faced with explaining the gap in your employment history and how you may have come about any experience or qualifications that you may have earned in that time too. These letters do however serve a purpose. They can be extremely cathartic, one will undoubtedly feel 'cleansed' having drawn out all of the pain, hurt & humiliation that the subject, who seems to me to be an infernal horror of a human being, has caused you. Write this letter in your own time, at home, in a cosy coffee parlour or even at your favourite public house - Write it ..but never send it.
Associate - EIR Founder's Office | Ex Student Editor: The Zine | Ex Research and Development Cell Secretary | Project Management | International Business Strategy
2 年Hey, I don't know if I was right or wrong being a fresher I have no idea what is expected of me. All I have ever done is stand by my principles and morals. Had ups and downs but was definitely happy with were I was. I think it was more complicated than that; not entirely sure if I should write an email to the senior management because I am not completely sure if I was right or wrong in that scenario. All I know is it made me feel sad and hurt in many ways. Any advice? I am all ears. Thanks :)
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2 年A day will come.........