Good to Switch from 'expect to accept'

In life it is always best is to accept and not to expect. Acceptation will lead to many good things in life. As we know people pretend a lot now a days and they hide a lot behind the happy mask they wear. “there is a chapter in every person’s life that he/she does not read out loud.” Everybody wants to get accepted in this society. Why does a person lie? Why does a person hide stuffs? Have you ever thought about this? I will tell you. Because they are scared that after people get to know the through people will leave them,they will criticise them,they will make him feel disgusted and that person will start hating himself.

Nobody would be there to support him when there will be a cyclone twirling inside him/her.As people leave in hard times only. You have to deal with this alone. Nobody will deal it on your behalf. Nobody will fight it for you. So guys if someone opens up to you don't give them that look instead try to understand them. Just “don't judge a person for the choices they make, When you don't know the options they had to choose from.” If you accept things in life it will be easier to live and it will give you happiness. It is said when you start to accept you forget that you need to expect.

Sometimes expecting is good. When you do something, you are having a purpose. When you are having a purpose it means you have a result of your work and that is expectation. Or else things will be aimless I think. No direction at all. Why we are even working then? Once you get your result, don't just cling to it. Accept it and again accepting is also good and celebrate, move on and work for the next or for betterment if needed. Never regret that you are alone. People may ask you to not isolate yourself and that is true up to a certain extent but being around filthy and selfish souls is even worse. Expecting and accepting should have a balance.

I love my space. I spend most of the day here. Either I study or work. Yes, I am preparing for govt job exams. I have no desires of baby-sona-chandi-laal-peela- - -.Sleeping at sharp 10:00 PM and waking up at 5 AM makes me happy. I can’t compromise my sleep for anyone. Whenever I get bored, Amazon prime is there to chill me out or I love listening to Ted Talks. I have developed a reading habit. I finished off 4 novels and now reading Indian Polity and sports related information. I love to read Political Blogs and listen to Political interviews I just love to gather knowledge about Indian Politics (no interest in becoming a Politician).

Love to spend time with my family. I crack lame jokes and we all enjoy the moment. Satisfying. Whenever I get the opportunity I travel and travel alone. Plug-in the earphones and you are the boss. I spend 1–2 hours in the evening sitting alone (either I go out or terrace is there for me) and talking to myself about any random stuff and that calms me like nothing. I love spiritualism hence I also keep myself busy in reading blogs about that and knowing as much as I can. I love being secular here hence read about every religion.

Yes, I am happy alone because I am just enjoying this moment. I won’t deny that sometimes it feels like there should be someone to whom I can share everything but I know I won’t be able to handle consequences. Being alone is not a curse, treat it as an opportunity to develop yourself into something more mature and more productive. The only way for us to have harmony between different beliefs is to realize that we are all one. As long as we believe that we are these bodies, we will think we belong to different nations, different cultures, different religions, and like we have seen over the centuries, we will be at war with one another.

Why do we have battles between acceptance and expectation? The battle is between an ego and another ego. Unfortunately we have too many political and religious leaders. And therefore there is no harmony. We need spiritual leaders, spiritual leaders who make us realize to be enlightened with the truth, that we are not the body that will die. We are not even the mind that we cannot find. We are the Divine Soul, the spirit. The truth is we are all part of one Supreme Immortal Power, SIP. So when we realize we are all SIP, there will be harmony, there will be world peace. Cheers!