Good Intentions Aren’t Enough

“Your intentions don’t matter. Perception is reality. If people perceive you the wrong way, it doesn’t matter what your intentions are.”

People can’t measure intentions.

Good intentions are an excellent start and a terrible excuse. Intentions are a private, internal choice. No one else really knows. No one else really cares. Only you know. When there is a misalignment between your intentions and what people experience, the impact of your behaviour says more than the quality of your intentions.

People know what you say, what you do, and how it makes them feel. They care about the experience you deliver, the value you provide, and the impact it has.

Nothing replaces quality execution, refined skill, and committed resolve. Set your intentions to that standard and align your behaviour to match. Discipline is the shortcut. Do the work.

Another unknown author wrote: “The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” People only know us by the words, behaviours, attitudes and actions we have chosen and how these make them feel. They know nothing of the beautiful intentions behind them. It is our responsibility and ownership to set their intentions to the highest standards of their personal values and align their behaviours to match. In doing so, they will change the image above to one in which both individuals will be standing side-by-side looking down and seeing the same number… and intention and perception will be one.

All credits for this article goes to Mike Reuter