"Good Enough" Isn't Always Good Enough.
Striving for excellence can drive personal and professional growth, but the pursuit of perfection often leads to unnecessary stress, anxiety, and a constant feeling of inadequacy.
This is where the concept of being “good enough” comes into play.
?Being good enough means acknowledging and embracing your strengths and limitations, setting realistic goals, and finding satisfaction in your efforts and accomplishments without the relentless pressure to be flawless.
Unlike perfectionism, which is characterized by a fear of failure and excessive self-criticism, being good enough focuses on balance and self-acceptance.
It allows individuals to appreciate their progress and achievements without the debilitating pressure to meet unrealistic standards.
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Thank you?….We need to stop giving advice to others and focus on our problems and mistakes, in this life, I have seen lots of strangers for real, in the last 2 years I got 30 years older plus my original 30.
We can believe that some thieves giving advice to a guy was just her dream, so she acts love, creepy stolen all his documents, fabricating everything, and then going to give him advice, and how he can find work.
And asking him to try to be a good person and deal with people nicely, the same way we can see people very angry cause a guy takes a small revenge for what they have been a long time doing to him.
?It's just crazy. Right is right..and you will always see the right one outside with a good strong heart but covered and cheaters they couldn't, money coming and money going always, its just good people we miss and I am happy that I didn't lose those people.
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The principle of?good enough?suggests that you should identify the point past which putting more resources into something won’t improve it in a meaningful manner, so you should finish with it and move on.
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Essentially, this means that you should embrace the idea that?good enough is good enough, instead of wasting valuable resources—such as time, money, and effort—by pouring them into a place where they won’t make a meaningful difference.
For example, if you’re revising a paper that you wrote, there will be a point where it’s already good enough that going over it again won’t make a meaningful difference in its quality, so you’ll simply be wasting your time by doing so, time which you can instead spend on more valuable activities.
The principle of?good enough?can be useful in a variety of situations, particularly when it comes to boosting your personal productivity, so it’s worthwhile to understand it.
What does it mean when something is “good enough”? I can understand it when a person is finishing up a mundane activity that is being completed out of necessity rather than out of an actual desire to do it.
As a metal disc, tarnished by dust, shines bright again after it has been cleaned, so is the one incarnate person fulfilled and free from grief.
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Do you want to add a word or two?
Essentially, this means that you should embrace the idea that?good enough is good enough, instead of wasting valuable resources—such as time, money, and effort—by pouring them into a place where they won’t make a meaningful difference.
For example, if you’re revising a paper that you wrote, there will be a point where it’s already good enough that going over it again won’t make a meaningful difference in its quality, so you’ll simply be wasting your time by doing so, time which you can instead spend on more valuable activities.
The principle of?good enough?can be useful in a variety of situations, particularly when it comes to boosting your personal productivity, so it’s worthwhile to understand it.
What does it mean when something is “good enough”? I can understand it when a person is finishing up a mundane activity that is being completed out of necessity rather than out of an actual desire to do it. In
certain circumstances "good enough" can be enough — but only in certain circumstances. Although perfection is unattainable, aiming for it when it isn't necessary or beneficial is a waste of time and energy.
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Based on my observations after having coached a fair number of people through breakups for several years, it‘s common for people to still have relatively strong feelings for their ex despite already being in a relationship.
This is just a pattern that I see consistently and over and over again.
And from what I‘ve learned, the reason it is that way is because:
A lot of people overestimate how quickly they can let go, heal and get over an ex and underestimate the work and effort this really takes.
They hide their pain and suppress their true feelings because they don’t want to look weak in front of their ex. Thus, they put on a front of emotional unavailability and pretend to be indifferent and unbothered when deep down, the opposite is the case.
They also know how to be attractive, how to attract partners and build relationships but not how to process or quickly bounce back after breakups and rediscover life without the ex.
Because of that, a lot of people carry their unspoken and unexpressed feelings for their ex around for a really long time, unaware that this very thing makes their future relationships worse because that emotional baggage (which consists of pain, deep insecurities, fears, projections) does affect it.
The only people with genuine and authentic indifference toward their exes are those who healed and processed their breakup properly.
Meaning that they didn’t immediately jump into a rebound relationship but took a break from dating for a couple of months and used that time to introspect, invest in themselves, and heal to the point where they’re no longer run by the breakup and rediscovered their core-confidence.
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1 个月I don't think that there are many people out there who would argue that relationships don't require significant effort. It's when 'good enough' starts coming onto the scene that our relationships or marriages start to roll downhill. Likewise, when finding a life partner of some sort, how could you ever settle for good enough? People settle all the time when it comes to significant others. They do so out of fear of possibly ending up entirely alone. It is a legitimate fear, but if you don't think that you can be happy living with someone if you don't truly love the person, then you are only setting yourself up for trouble or sadness. Enough isn't enough when it comes to matters of the heart because the heart wants what it wants and can spot a fake from a mile away.