Golden Rules To Keep A Marriage Strong

It is not all marriages have a fairytale ending, we will surely celebrate our Golden Wedding: 50 years of marital bliss. In marriage sometimes been a bumpy ride, sometimes you may hit the rock of misunderstanding an argument but as you go along, it got better and better. Communication, by far, is the #1 rule that couples cite as the key to a lasting marriage. The truth is a broken marriage has long-lasting tragic consequences, especially if there are children involved. Divorce is not an option; this is the golden rule, the key to marital bliss. Sometimes, you may wake up in the night and think, and began to ask yourself if you have made a hideous mistake?’ The answer is no. No good thing comes easily; there are battles you must fight to get a good result in marriage.

Golden Rules

1. Do not take your partner for granted. Mind your manners. “Please,” “thank you” and “you’re welcome,” ‘

2. The couple that plays together stays together. Find a sport or hobby that you both love

3. Never both be angry at the same time.

4. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

5. Laughter is the best medicine. Learn to laugh at yourself and at silly mistakes. If you must criticize, do it lovingly.

6. Never think of quitting, Quitters never win.

7.  Never bring up mistakes of the past.

8.  Learn to listen.

9. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

10. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

11. When the going gets tough, the tough get going

12. At least once every day say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner.

13. In case you have done something wrong, admit it, and ask for forgiveness.

14. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel.

Life Golden Rules

" Respect 3 People –Teachers, Parents, and Elderly

Keep 3 things in you - Honesty, Faith, and Good Deeds

Be Free from 3 things – Arrogance, Cheating, and Debts

Control 3 things –Tongue, Anger, and Appetite

Reject 3 things - Bad deeds, Backbiting, and Jealousy

Obtain 3 things - Knowledge, Understanding, and Wisdom

Build on 3 things - Good counsel, Good Manners, and Godliness with contentment

Keep 3 things pure - Body, Clothes, and Thoughts

Remember 3 things – Death, Hell, and Heaven

Protect 3 things – Family, Future, and Friends

Work on 3 things – Vision, Trust, and Faith

Run away from 3 things – Sin, Pride, and Bad association

Love 3 People – God, Yourself, and Others     "

God Bless You