A Golden Mantra- If You Do Not Belong To The Room!
Shilpa Kulshrestha
Murdering Mediocrity??Game Changer Career Coach??Helping Professionals Feeling Stuck, Climb Up The Ladder with CONFIDENCE & SPEED??Added $25M to Salaries??3xTEDx Speaker??Multi-awarde BestSellingAuthor??Forbes??MumWife??
You enter a room full of executives and you immediately start doubting yourself!
Do I belong here?
Do I have the required presence?
Do I have anything to contribute?
Then with butterflies kicking in…
Your body closes itself down for safety,
Your words shut themselves up in a shell,?
You become conscious of every move you make,
And you end you feeling awkward, appearing awkward and sounding awkward.?
Ever experienced this?
Not belonging in the room,
Not having a voice,
Doubting yourself for the capability that you bring to the table.
I have. Not once or twice but innumerable times.
I can give you a thousand examples but let me come straight to the point.
A golden mantra that changed my life!
That enabled me to consistently be in rooms that were beyond me,
And make my mark there- despite being a shy introvert.
A single thing that you need to focus on:
YOUR BELIEF:
I ADD VALUE WHEREVER I GO!
Step into this new empowering belief and your life will change forever.
3 steps:
I promise that you will end up stepping into your multiplier effect!
Knowing that when you enter a room, you multiply- your skillset, your strengths, your expertise, your experience and your wins.
And that will enable you to consistently?
You won’t know until you do it.
You know what I mean :-)
Professional SCRUM Product Owner (PSPO I) | Lead Business Analyst | Business Consultant |
2 年100% totally resonate with this
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2 年Beautiful share Shilpa !! N I'm sure a lot of audience will be able to relate and this magic Mantra is going to change the life for many !!
I help my clients to positively position their value; be it personal or professional (for online & offline presence), by crafting a clear & crisp message, to suit the purpose of communication & their target audience.
2 年Lovely mantra. Agree as I resonate with it - as I always think this way, am proactive, choose to approach people, instead of waiting for them to do so. ?? ??
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2 年Thank you, for sharing this informative posting ????
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2 年Thanks for sharing. I am in the same boat in my current role. That's the confidence/belief we need. We belong to the room. We can contribute to the discussion.