This goes deeper than you think….

The reason people don’t negotiate or advocate for themselves isn’t because they don’t know what to say… or they “don’t know how”...

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I always tell my clients when they say “I don’t know what to say”

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That.. First of all: Of course I’ll help them come up with words they feel good about that have a maximum bang for their buck…

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BUT that it’s not the reason they haven’t already gone forward with the negotiation.?

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Negotiation goes much deeper. ?

Advocating for yourself goes much deeper.?

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Otherwise we’d all have successfully negotiated using all the scripts you can find online.?

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→ If we have unhealed money wounds from childhood we won’t feel right about asking for more.

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→ If we were ever shamed for asking for something we would likely not want to ask due to that painful experience.

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→ If we have been doubtful that we deserve it or we question whether we are worthy of it we just won’t allow ourselves to ask for it.

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The life-changing work is NOT to learn “How to negotiate”?

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It’s learning to become comfortable with receiving and having a higher amount and a higher pay and imagining it growing.

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Imagining your bank account growing instead of shrinking.

And having it FEEL Good, on point, like who you are supposed to be.?

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Have it feel like you are truly putting work and value out there that is deserving and worthy of YOU benefiting from it. Because you KNOW others are benefiting even more.

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This is a big misconception and a lot of the surface-level stuff out there will tell you how to respond and what to say.?

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But truly how you energetically match to money (or repel money) with your subconscious thoughts and paradigms from the past (that you’re not likely aware of) is why the majority of hard-working people don’t advocate for themselves strongly and don’t negotiate when they Deserve to be making more.

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I want to help you stop under-earning.?

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This work will change your life.?

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We’re starting it inside my FREE 3-day Training happening NEXT WEEK. If you can’t join register anyway and get the replay!?

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My friend Jess talked about this in her post today! READ HER POST HERE and support the movement for advocating! We’ll be talking a lot about this on the 3 day training! Including how to attract high value environments and more!

P.S.?Hey! If you happen to be new here I’m Natalie! Great to meet you! I help smart capable people like you land jobs and then make an impact in them! I do that in two ways! 1 with my signature program which I’ll introduce you to on my upcoming 3 day series HERE.

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