God removes some people from your life to leave you in peace

Any human being is doing lot of sins due to the influence of some unreal bonds only. Therefore this is an important aspect for both Pravrutti and Nivrutti. It is a temporary bond which can be realized within the span of a life time. Therefore, this sharp logical analysis that is done frequently will make one to realize that the bonds are unreal. Jesus told that unless one hates these bonds he cannot be His real disciple. Hatred cannot arise unless the unreality of the bond is realized. 

Bhagwan Shankara said that "which is temporary is always unreal"because "Reality is permanent". These worldly bonds neither existed before this birth nor will exist in the future births. Hence these bonds are temporary and therefore unreal. Two actors are acting as husband and wife or father and son etc in a drama. Before and after the drama the bond does not exist and hence the bond exists temporarily during the time of the drama.

Even during the drama sharp analysis reveals that the bond is unreal in that time also. In any moment the actors can realize the unreality of the bond during the time of drama. The feeling of reality is only superimposed on the unreal bond so that the action will be natural and the audience will appreciate. A wife was not wife before marriage and if she is divorced and marries somebody else the bond disappears.

Remember the family bonds are generated due to the necessity of clearance of un-cleared debts in the previous births where wife and children enjoy your earnings to a major extent. Hence it is said that they are linked to you since you did not clear their loans in the previous birth (Runaanubandha rupena). This basic concept brings the realization that these family bonds are really the bonds of business to clear the loans which are masked by the family love. The best way is to convert the family members into devotees of God so that they will co-operate your spiritual effort like a co-devotee.

When Jesus brought the concept of hatred only to the case of the family members who oppose your spiritual progress. Jesus loved His mother since she was co-operating with Him in His spiritual mission. He denied her on several occasions giving importance to devotees, only to give a message to the non-devotional bonds of family members, which constitute the general lot of humanity.

The question makes unwarranted assumptions: that there is a god, that this god removes people from my life, and that the god has any reasons for doing this. Once we have an example of a god to examine, then we will be able to figure out what reasons that god may or may not have for any actions. Until then, all we have is speculation.

If someone tries to tell you their speculations, ask them how they know. They died - either old age or misadventure or I drove them away by being a nuisance, they left the country seeking work and we didn’t stay in touch and some have left us on their own wish like some people move on to other relationships, or other circles of friends, social changes, also needing no special explanation. If I missed a way people move out of your life, send me a line and I will add that to my answer.

God would just do it or maybe working through a prayer without forcing something. For example, God is always working on people to accept the gospel. He will not force it on us. But because He love us and want to see us saved, He will continue relentlessly. We as believers plant a seed and God make it grow. I have been praying for my relationship with my wife to be stronger.

Once I became saved, I changed a lot. I left all selfish and sarcastic ways and focuses on God. That created issues as she is no longer first. Not that she was lol. Before my job was first and she was okay with that. Now it all has changed. I have seen God working showing my wife to stay to calm down. Everything is okay. I have seen YouTube change to where a message is given and she had taken notice of all this things happening.

Why would God want to remove a person out of your life? The best answer is are u wanting a person removed out of your life. Just remember that it rains on both the good and the evil. Somethings we just don't have control all we can do is pray and hope. I remember my mom telling me that she was being mistreated at work for about 12 yrs. The boss was verbally abusive, not just with her with everyone. My mom being very sensitive took it very hard over the years.

One day, that man was too abusive and she finally had a nervous breakdown. She cried out to God to never had to put up with it again. That she was tired and ask God not to have to deal with that man. That same day. She was run over by a car, but it happened in a way that caused minimum damaged. She never returned to work. She had to have knee surgery. But the outcome of that accident was that she won the case after two yrs. God redeemed her. Not only that that man was fired shortly after she left. She did put a claim against the man before departing. You see. God has his ways and sometimes we can't see what He is doing until time has passed and u can see it all together.

There are not a lot of things that God tries actively to remove or change in reality. A lot of parts are in play and it takes a pretty disastrous situation for God to focus energy on direct intervention. If this really is necessary, rest assured there will be no winners — if humans have lost their way so terribly that the only way to get them back on track is an act of God — assuming he wants to save us for some reason — there will be change and pain on all sides. But I think what this question is really about is that God does often try to wrestle our preoccupations, our obsessions, our fantasies and our venerations — from our heart or core.

An idol is something we give greater glory than it deserves, it wears the trappings of promises but incompetent delivery is inevitable. God doesn't like it when these things consume us — they distract us from the moment, and our role in it. When our drive is fueled by possession of the good thing, God distances us from it in order to demonstrate its limitations. God tries to break the spell we've cast on ourselves when we worship people, ideas, dreams, etc. There's distance, hiding, destruction, redirection, giving over to weakness. Cheers!