Give women the opportunity to "chase" you.
Men are usually swayed by good looks when they see a woman and they decide if they are attracted towards a woman or not in the first few minutes of the initial meetings.
Though this, later on, can change, they might initially feel infatuated towards her and later on think that she isn't worth it or gets distracted by someone else.
A lot of how your relationship will be with a woman depends on how you treat her in her early days when you started talking to her. It is not that difficult to make a girl fall for you and we are making sure you are on top of your game. Men who never chase are the ones who ultimately get the girl.
Make Your First Impression Count
Be confident. Do not fumble. Have something to say. You can't risk killing your first date with her or else that just might be your last one.
There can be nothing worse than not having anything to say and the other person feeling sleepy or blabbering alone. You don't want to do that. To avoid the storm inside your head gets even worse, start talking.
Ask questions and show some interest. By the end of it make her curious wherein she wants to know more and you know enough to row your boat further.
Be a Challenge
Instead of doing the hard work, create situations where she has do the chasing instead. Don't be the desperate, needy, and always-eager-to-please guy. Come across as a powerful guy, who has a lot going on his life and wouldn't go after a woman. Instead, build the mystery factor and draw them towards you.
You are doomed forever if your opening statement is "Do you have a boyfriend?". Period. Women generally think of us with a one-track mind, and this is your chance to prove them wrong.
Never get into silly questions or details. Instead, ask her what her equation with pets is. Or what's her favorite genre of music and maybe you can play her favorite song once she agrees.
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Thank you ….Don't Linger
Too much of anything is bad. And trust us, women don't like men hovering around them all the time and "baby'-ing them.
Give them the chance to yearn for you. Stay close, but stay away. Let them come after you when you make yourself scarce. In other words, use absence to make her heart grow fonder.
Pay Attention to Small Details
Buying her a bouquet of roses every day or dropping obvious compliments aren't going to earn you any brownie points. Women are suckers for details. Tell her how her dress reminded you of your favorite love story writer, or drop her a text about how she's in your thoughts even when you are not around. She will definitely come back for more of those.
Know Where to Draw the Line
You like her, she likes you back. Next thing to do?
You ask her out on a date! But don't keep doing it again and again. Give her the chance to miss you. If she asks you out for dinner one night, play around a bit. Tell her you are not sure, you might have to check. Of course, don't keep refusing her every time; else she might lose interest in you. Figure out the real way and you could be the real boss!
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Get To Know Her Better
In an interview, the balance strikes when both parties have doubts and both their doubts are clarified. Do not go on blurting out everything about yourself without asking her a single thing.
?Find out what her likes and dislikes are, and whether she fits the bill too or not. It's crucial to do so, as this gives women an assurance that you are equally interested to take matters forward. Add a pinch of humor to the questions and you are on the right path, my friend!
Know the Difference between 'Cocky' And 'Funny'
If you can make a woman laugh, she will be yours. And we don't doubt this fact one bit. But there's a huge difference between being funny and being cocky. Don't ever try to demean her (especially in front of others by trying to prove how sarcastic you can be), or she will never be yours.
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Make her laugh with good humor and that will keep her thinking more about you. Good humor can do wonders, whereas sarcasm can often kill the vibe.
Hold On To Your Cards
Transparency is good. But mystery is better. At least when it comes to wooing women. Don't be an open book. Build some suspense and create some mystery. These are foolproof ways of creating attraction, an attraction so strong, that she can't resist chasing you.
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Stop Chasing
There are only a few ways that you can be different. Don't go chasing her like any other guy out there. Let her take the first step, for a change. Use the above tips and make sure you are not the one standing outside her balcony every night like Romeo. It's time for some role reversal, bro!
Make Him Want You?
Unfortunately, these games have become ingrained into dating as we know it, and both men and women play them.
Women play hard-to-get, being flirty but aloof.
Men play the game of ulterior motive. They do one thing (compliment you) to get something completely other (sex).
A game every one of every age knows, however, is “the chase.”
This is every man’s favorite game.
Men, as women know, like a chase. They’re hunters. Anything that falls right into their lap isn’t fair play. They want something they can go after, something to hunt.
If you’ve ever had a cat, you know how they get when they catch a mouse. They will run after it for hours, and once they have it, they’ll play with it to death. Then they’re not interested anymore.
No, Sexy Lady, I’m not comparing you to that mouse (exactly), but I am illustrating the thrill of that chase for men. Just like the cat, they want a little challenge. If the mouse just cowered in the middle of your kitchen floor, the cat would probably sniff it and then walk away. But as soon as it moves, the chase is on.
So if you want to know how to make him want you, let him chase you.
You need to know how to play this silly little courting ritual without getting caught. The first step to winning this game is understanding your opponent.
This man values your intellect, your strength, and your beauty. He does not expect you to be easy to catch. This turns him on because he anticipates the thrill of the hunt.
Make him want you
A serious man wants to date you, not a girl. He wants someone who knows what she wants and is over playing games.
That being said, you might be tempted to lay it all out on the table. You want him to be your boyfriend, so why shouldn’t you tell him?
Remember that we’re trying to get him to chase you, okay? Frankly, a girl telling a guy that she wants to get serious after just a few dates is going to scare him off.
A better approach in how to make him want you is to hint that you’re available without telling him you’re interested in things maybe developing beyond flirting or a few dates.
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2 年Show your interest…just not all of it. I’m not asking you to lie. In fact, honesty is the best policy when it comes to dating, in my mind. But honesty and pouring out every emotion and thought you have are not the same thing. Think about it. When you start dating someone, you don’t tell them about how last night Indian food has had you in the bathroom all night. You don’t tell them that your last boyfriend broke up with you for being too needy. You’re not lying by keeping these things from a guy…unless he asks you about them point blank. But you are deciding what level of transparency you will provide. Over time, as you get more serious, you will let him in more. But for now, you’re getting him to chase you, to want to get to that point of 100% transparency. The key to being honest is to let him know you’re open, but letting him know he’s not completely allowed into your heart and brain. That will make him hunger for the vast wisdom that awaits him there!