About Give and Take…Each for a Special Reason
Destiny written all over it.
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First love:
This love often happens at a young age. You eventually grow apart or call it quits over silly things.
When you get older, you may look back and think it wasn't love. But the truth is, it was.
It was love for what you knew love to be.
Remember: there are different depths of love.
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Second love:
The hard one. You get hurt in this one. This love teaches us lessons and makes us stronger.
This love includes pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama, and damage. But this is the one where we grow. We realize what we love about love and what we don't love about love.
Now we all know the difference between good and bad humans. Now we have become closed, careful, cautious, and considerate. We know exactly what we want and don't want.
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Third love:
This one comes blindly. No warning. It creeps on you silently. You don't go looking for this love. It comes to you.
You can put up any wall you want, but it will be broken down. You'll find yourself caring about that person without trying. They look nothing like your usual crush types, but you get lost in their eyes daily.
You see beauty in their imperfections. You hide nothing from them. You want marriage and family with them.
You thank the universe for them. You genuinely love them.
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?If he loves you, he’s willing to compromise.
Cuddling kills depression, relieves anxiety, and strengthens the immune system.
Love without respect isn’t really love.
If he truly loves you, he respects your boundaries without making you feel guilty for setting them.
This goes for everything from physical boundaries to your need for alone time or even differing opinions.
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Thank you?….This doesn’t mean he always lets you have your way, but he’s open to finding a middle ground so that both of your needs are met.
He will show you in ways you'd never expect.
Some guys don't know how to be romantic, but you can teach him how to show you he loves you.
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Thank you?….
Men are remarkably capable of learning like that.
When people are angry at you, if you stay calm it'll get them even angrier, and be ashamed about it after.
Always be honest so when you have to lie, people will believe you.
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Couples who laugh together for at least 10 minutes each day will have a stronger relationship.
99% of women want to find a boyfriend with a high appearance, good figure, and rich family.
?It's a pity that most of the guys are not rich take a leak ?while you tell it.
Because of a phenomenon called the "Inhibitory spillover effect", focusing on controlling your bladder also allows you to focus on hiding any tells you might have when fibbing.
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Speak only when your words are more beautiful than silence.
Do not chase people. Work hard and be yourself. By these two principles, the right people will find their way in your life.
Creative people are more likely to become depressed because they feel no one gets them.
When you talk, you are repeating what you already know. But if you listen you may learn something new.
Do you want to add a word or two ?
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A single negative thing could be only be outweighed by at least five positive things.
Your brain remembers bad over good; an effect of this thing called ‘negativity bias.’
It is also the reason why you keep dwelling on how a co-worker insulted your outfit despite hearing a compliment from your client.
Tears indicate the reason for one’s crying.
If the first teardrop came from the right eye, the person is crying tears of joy. Otherwise, the person is crying tears of pain.
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In order to have a balance, ratio of positive to negative is a must.
Thinking in another language makes your decision sound more rational.
You tend to be less discerning about money in your native tongue. In other words, the language you use affects your decisions.
Having a plan B would only make plan A less likely to work.
The University of Pennsylvania held a series of experiments that revealed that volunteers who prepared a backup plan before starting a task did worse than those who did not. Team Plan B realized that having options made their motivation to succeed the first time drop.
While it is good to think ahead, keeping those plans vague first could make you be more successful.
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Fear is an actually good feeling if you are not really in danger.
There are people who love scary movies and there are those who do not, and the difference might be in their hormones.
?Such activities give you adrenaline, dopamine, and endorphins from a fight-or-flight response. Some psychology facts for the kids: testing is an efficient tool for learning…. discovered that information could last longer in the memory of a person tested for it than when only studied without the need to remember immediately.
High expectations incline people to rise to it while low ones have no such effects.
The Pygmalion effect holds the explanation as to why you do better when other people believe you would.
?On the contrary, you could not do well when someone expects you to fail.
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Women fall in love through a man's words, but they stay in love because of his actions.
They find it a turn-off when a strange man uses intimate names like "Dear," "Sweetheart," or "Love" on them. He might think it impresses her, but she finds it cheap, feeling he uses those intimate names on any random lady.
Before you tell her "I love you," be sure you know the meaning, depth, weight, and responsibility of those words.
She loves to be slowly unveiled, so don't push or rush her.
Even though her heart believes in love, she needs convincing as to why she should love. It is up to you to call her heart out from hiding.
Awaken love in her only if you are serious.
Honesty is key; tell her the truth no matter how painful or difficult it is to bear. She will love and trust you more for it.
Women love attention; the moment she notices you don't give her attention, she reads that as things falling apart between you two.
The best gift you can give a woman is your time. You can buy expensive gifts, but if you rob her of your presence, the expensive gifts mean little to her. Her indicator of love is your time.
There is a difference between love and being in love. Loving you is her personal choice; being in love with you depends on how well you treat her and excite her.
It is one thing to say you love her; it is another thing to make her feel loved.
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5 个月It is easy as well as tough. Tough because people somehow started faking it. He will do everything for you, he will care for you more than anyone. He will be by your side in every situation. You will be his only priority. He will be a little shy every time when you will look directly into his eyes. He will never say I love you, but he will prove his love in every moment of his life. And he will never hurry up the things.... It is what I did. I do not know about others. Take Care..