Give the Gift of Connection this Christmas

We’re officially entering Christmas week so I wanted to get in the spirit and help you share in the excitement.??

Here are 3 ways you can build a stronger connection with your partner this Christmas and create momentum for a better start to 2023.?

1?? Make a conscious decision to enjoy family events: Christmas usually includes a lot of family gatherings and obligations, which can be a source of stress and conflict for couples.

Arguments may arise over who to spend the holidays with, how to divide time between different family members, and how to handle any family conflicts or drama. Make an effort this year to be present.

Enjoy the opportunity to learn more about your partner’s family members you don’t usually see.?

2?? Embrace different traditions: Different couples may have different Christmas traditions, and this can lead to arguments over how to celebrate. Couples may disagree over where to spend Christmas day, what activities to do, and how to include their own traditions and those of their partner's family.

Life would be boring if you were only ever exposed to your immediate family traditions so take this opportunity to enjoy the differences.?

3?? Make time for your partner: The holiday season can be a busy and stressful time, and couples can argue over how to divide their time and energy. It can become a point scoring contest over who is taking the majority of the load and who is more exhausted.

Make one-on-one time a priority with your partner. Put it in the diary. Decide in advance what you plan to do. Even if it’s just to chill out together to recharge, this could be essential to keep a steady boat this Christmas break.?

I love helping couples work through issues around conflict, communication and trust together and it’s very satisfying to see them leave me feeling like they are both playing for the same team.

If you would like help to improve the level of connection in your relationship, or you feel you are in need of some coaching guidance, drop me a message and we’ll open up the conversation.?

Wishing you and your family a great Christmas break this year!?

~Steve~