Girlfriends want to turn wife and wives want to be treated like girlfriends

GF(talking on phone at 11 pm): I really miss you. How awesome it would be if live together some day and talk the whole night.

Wife: Go to sleep baby, you have early meeting for tomorrow! I have already fried the sooji for upma. Will pack you lunch in the morning.

GF: Aww thank you so much for the flowers. I love you so much.

Wife: Aww thank you for helping me out on washing utensils. I had a tiring day today and couldn't survive doing the dishes.

GF: This weekend when we meet let us go for that movie and head to that sports bar and drink our a XXX off.

Wife: Tonight lets do slumber party at home. Will sip wine and eat chicken grill. Let us not spend money on VAT and service charges

BF: in public places hand on her back.

Husband: in public places hand on her shoulders.

BF: to show affection, kisses her on the mouth.

Husband: to show affection, kisses her forehead.

BF: let me call and order pizza for tonight.

Husband: Let me help you in preparing roti. You roll and I will fry them.

2 hours after a big fight:

Girlfriend: "I don't think it is working anymore! I need a break. Please leave me alone for sometime."

Wife: "Where the hell have you kept your dirty boxers! I have put clothes for washing. Don't complain if you have to recycle them later!!"

Man on Facebook:

Girlfriend: "Why do you spend hours together of Facebook? Whom are you stalking? Are you trying to cheat on me?"

Wife: "Stop this shit right now and quickly get tomatoes from the supermarket if you don't want me to drop the idea of cooking your favorite mutton curry for dinner"

The couple spending quality time together:

Girlfriend: "You're looking great. This stubble look suits you."

Wife: "Do you see hair growing out of your ears? Let me just grab my scissors. I'll trim it. "

Switching gears from the humorous to the serious element!

Girlfriend: Never passes gas in front of you. In fact, it is impossible for her to fart at all! She doesn't poop either!

Wife: Not only farts whenever she pleases, but will probably laugh about it like it was the funniest joke on earth!

Boyfriend: Will walk away for a second, fart really quickly and then wander back like nothing happened.

Husband: Will pull the blankets over your head and let out the fart he has built up all day for this very moment!

Girlfriend: Puts on make-up and does her hair all nice before you even wake up, because god forbid you see her without make-up! Like that shit is tattooed on her face, okay!

Wife: Has a basket of Make-up under the bathroom sink, but you're not really sure why she keeps it there and it’s in the way of the toilet paper!

Boyfriend: Puts on nice button up shirts and matches his clothing, shaves and wears cologne.

Husband: You're lucky if he puts on pants half of the time, and all of a sudden he decides to grow a beard!

Girlfriend: This is my wonderful boyfriend.

Wife: Him? Oh that big lug’s my husband. I can't take him anywhere!

Boyfriend: This beautiful young lady is my girlfriend.

Husband: This is my OLD lady!

Girlfriend: Have fun tonight with your friends. I miss you!

Wife: You think you’re going where? And you're leaving me with these kids all night while you have a good time?

Boyfriend: Who’s going to be there? Are there going to be other guys?

Husband: Have fun!

Girlfriend: Anticipates sex and gets all dressed up in cute lingerie.

Wife: Anticipates the kids walking in or waking up and gets right to the point!

Boyfriend: Spends hours on foreplay and sex to prove he is a good lover

Husband: Spends hours promising “it will be quick, the kids won't wake up, I promise!”

Girlfriend: Spends time and effort finding you tickets to your favorite game for you and your best buds, a shit ton of beer and sex when you get home!

Wife: Spends five minutes on Pinterest and makes something homemade from things laying around the house!

Boyfriend: Buys flowers and takes you to the most expensive restaurant, even though you're just going to eat salad.

Husband: Takes you to your local diner and springs for desert!

Girlfriend: Talks about her goals and dreams for life.

Wife: Blames you for keeping her from her goals and dreams.

Boyfriend: Talks about his future career and all the money he is going to have.

Husband: Works hard to live up to those promises everyday!

Girlfriend: Tells you you're cute and funny.

Wife: Tells you that you need to trim your nose hairs.

Boyfriend: Tells you you're adorable and silly.

Husband: Gets irritated when you do stupid things.

Girlfriend: notices a pimple, but won't say a word about it.

Wife: Comes at your face full force - that sucker's getting popped!

Boyfriend: Will probably over look a blemish or two.

Husband: “Whoa, who invited the alien to join us for dinner on your face?”

Basically, we get comfortable with each other! That's the biggest difference - we learn about one another and don't feel the need to hold ourselves back. They know you and your flaws already and still chose you! You're free to be yourself! I feel there is a big difference between a boyfriend/girlfriend and a husband/wife – many of which revolve around commitment, understanding and fidelity.

For people who have stayed in long relationships might claim that they don’t need a ring. Their partner is more a husband/wife any day. A ring won’t decide that! I would want my relationship to be legally recognized. Marriage is the ultimate symbol of commitment and a relationship that constantly blooms and evolves with the couple.

That's the essence of it. Talk and know if you both are ready to take your relationship to the next level or you need some more time. Explore each others interests and know each other the best you can. If you are ready, then Propose! Let it be the way she wants, keep in mind her likes, taste and preference. If she agrees, go to the next level, Marriage. Well its a big mechanical process. So, there is this machine called, marriage.

Prepare a work schedule (Think about proposing her). Consult the main engineer in charge (your gf). To start the process you need to convince the main technicians (her dad and mom). Then get the permission from site supervisors (your mom and dad). Once you are done with the checks and paper works properly. It has to work accordingly. Take your time, enough of time before you decide to take the plunge. Just enjoy her company and include her in your life. Strive to be the best person you can be, in all areas of your life… relationship, work, family.

There is no rush when you are young.. relationships develop and improve with time, or they fail when they should fail. I wouldn’t worry about turning boyfriend/girlfriend into husband/wife until you have been sharing your lives and adventures together for 2 to 4 years. If things go well, you will both be on the same page and talking about getting married in a natural way. Be honest, compassionate, loving and give her time. All this considering she is a good match to you. Forcing someone to do or be something that they aren't is a good way to botch it all up. It wouldn't hurt to gently talk to her (not nag) about future plans.

The will at least set you straight if you have unrealistic expectations. You need to have a reasonably good idea that she wants to be your wife. So it somewhat depends how much time you have been together and how well you know each other. Some you feel all is good, then you Propose sweetly to her and if all is good she will accept and you then plan for a marriage or maybe just elope and make it happen. Work hard make yourself a good man and worthy of being with her. If she agrees to be with you ask your parents or convince them and convert it into arrange marriage and if she denies every time you can't do anything it's her choice. Cheers!