A girl who is unlike any other girl!
What makes her so different from the other girls?
Her looks, personality?
What is so unique about her?
The more connected the world becomes, the more options we have: more food options, beverage options, clothing options, housing options… You name it, and you’ll find endless options and variations on whatever.
We also have more options when it comes to potential partners. Or maybe we now have more access to potential partners. The world is getting smaller and, like everything else, the competition will only get harder.
Society seems to believe that outer beauty is objective and inner beauty is subjective, but it’s exactly the opposite. We don’t pick a person. We pick the relationship we have with that person
You can measure inner beauty rather simply -- if she’s compassionate, vivacious and intelligent, then she’s beautiful on the inside. If not, then she isn’t.
Outer beauty, on the other hand, relies on the eye of the beholder. The beauty of this is that anyone can be beautiful inside and out, anyone can find someone who believes and understands you’re beautiful inside and out.
It’s difficult for me to say that every man is looking for a woman with a higher IQ, but I’m rather certain that every man is looking for a woman who can teach him things -- someone he can admire and, in a way, look up to. The same thing goes for women.
Lots of things, her smile, when she talks in low pitch which sounds very sweet, when she shows some care, shying eyes, and may be more. She’s absolutely stunning, but it's her attitude to live that makes her stand out. She is so unique! Her personality, her humour, her courage, her beauty.. All tops. She has magnetism.
We all want a partner we admire. No matter how big our egos are -- or because our egos are so big -- we want to spend our lives with someone we find to be better than ourselves. We believe we deserve better than ourselves -- someone who makes us better.
What we can we say…. we’re guys and we want the best of both worlds. We want a woman who is both strong and aggressive, soft and delicate. Of course, this takes a certain mentality and not too many women -- or people, in general -- manage to be strong, aggressive and compassionate.
It’s most certainly doable, but takes focus and self-awareness -- things which, let’s be honest, a lot of people refuse to have.
To feel alive is to be alive, and to be alive is to be moving -- what doesn’t move, doesn’t live. Relationships themselves are living things -- just as any system is, in a sense, a living thing.
For this reason, we all need to feel as if our relationship is continuously moving forward, that things are happening and that we are living our lives to the fullest. We don't want to be with someone who makes us feel stagnant.
The best way of avoiding this is to proactively be active and positive. Motivate and inspire him to be better and he’ll return the favour -- a perfect synergy.
Nothing makes a man feel more alive than a woman striving to live life to the fullest. A woman who knows what she wants out of life and is more than willing to do what it takes to make her dream life her reality.
Not only is it incredibly sexy, it also helps us remain clear on what direction we want our lives to go. Of course, not every woman is clear on what she wants out of life.
Men are more than happy with a woman who's passionate about finding herself and finding what she believes to be most important in life -- as long as she’s willing to explore life together.
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Thank you … When you love a girl who is used to being on her own, you’re loving a girl who is scared by the possibility of ever having to relearn how to do that. You’re saying, “Please let me in,” while she’s saying, “Please don’t go.”
So when you love a girl who has been used to being on her own, please be prepared to stay. Be ready to hold her hand when she says, “I can do it,” and respond with, “But I can help.” Be ready to learn about her life, her world, and find a way to respect it while still being a part of it.
Be ready to scale the walls she’s built around herself, and her heart, and be ready to never worry about what’s going on outside of them.
Because when you do, when you really do, she’ll be ready to never let you go.
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You don’t need to be perfect. He doesn’t need to be perfect. But you should feel fantastic together.
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In the end, we come to understand that the objective qualities of a person matter less than how we feel when we’re together.
She’ll probably want to take things slowly because she’ll not be used to all the attention. Don’t think she doesn’t like you enough, she probably likes you a lot; it’s just all new to her.
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Being alone is her default, it’s her comfort zone. But expect her to fall in love with you faster than she’ll admit and in a way that isn’t loud but still powerful; it’ll be like a little bit of heaven. And it won’t matter if you love her for a while or for a lifetime; her love will change both you and her forever.