The gifted's burden: why talented people struggle more than others?

Have you ever heard the saying:

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan 'Press On!' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race - Calvin Coolidge

Think about it: we've all met people who are incredibly smart or skilled, but they never seem to reach their full potential. Why? Often, it's because they face more obstacles than others, such as discrimination, financial hardship, or lack of opportunities.

The greatest talents can sometimes be the ones who struggle the most. They feel the weight of their own potential, but with that comes doubt and hesitation. The fear of trying to put themselves out there can be paralyzing. It's a lonely place to be, where talent can sometimes feel like a burden rather than a blessing.

Talented people also often face rejection due to jealousy from others. This can be especially harmful when their talents threaten the status quo or make others feel inadequate. It's important to remember that such rejection is not a reflection of your abilities but rather a sign of the other person's insecurities.

Remember the French proverb, "On n'est jamais aussi bien servi que par soi-même," which translates to "One is never better served than by oneself." This timeless wisdom reminds us that ultimately, our success depends on our own efforts and determination. Don't wait for others to help you or live on their promises. They may have good intentions, but their actions often speak louder than their words.

Aristotle wisely observed, "Envy is a disease of the soul."

Human beings often default to envy and fear in the face of competition, prioritizing their own interests. This can lead to rejection of talented individuals, as their success can threaten the status quo or make others feel inadequate.

So, the next time you're feeling discouraged or tempted to quit, remember the power of perseverance. Keep pressing on, keep pushing forward, and never let anyone tell you that you can't do it. Life is a relentless teacher; it can strike you down and leave you on your knees, forcing you to confront your vulnerabilities. In one moment, it gifts you a reason to smile, only to follow it with a wave of tears.

Ultimately, it's the relentless spirit of pressing on that transforms struggle into success, reminding us that persistence can outshine even the brightest talent. Keep pressing on, keep pushing forward, and never let anyone tell you that you can't do it. With enough determination, anything is possible.

In the face of adversity, when others doubt you, look within. Your perseverance is the key to unlocking the doors of possibility