The Gift of Loving Your Struggling Parts

Let me share something intimate with you—a deep revelation that came to me after facilitating ?Aya ceremonies in the jungle in Peru…

There I was with the other facilitator, guiding a beautiful soul through her deepest healing journey. Hour after hour, we moved through layers of pain and fear, reaching breathtaking breakthroughs.?

A pure miracle was unfolding for my client. Yet, at the end of this miraculous night, my mind fixated on one tiny moment—a single sentence where I thought I might have said something wrong.

Isn't it fascinating how we do this? In the midst of our most magnificent moments, we let our inner critic steal the moment.

Perhaps you know this dance…

• The way we dismiss our achievements to focus on tiny imperfections.
• How we collect evidence of our "unworthiness" while ignoring proof of our gifts.
• The familiar pattern of seeking what's wrong instead of celebrating what's right.

Yet here's what I learned that night beneath those ancient Peruvian stars:?

These parts of us that struggle, like that perfectionist voice pointing out our "flaws,” are simply longing for love. Not the kind we seek from others but the kind that we need to give ourselves.?

Think of it as a sacred relationship with yourself…

• Where every doubt is met with gentle understanding and love
• Where self-criticism transforms into self-compassion

The shamans taught me that gratitude is our daily medicine and that we need to bring LOVING COMPASSION to these struggling parts.

When you do, something starts to soften inside us. And here's the truth I've found:?

Epic love isn't about finding the "perfect" person or becoming "perfect" ourselves. It's about meeting every part of ourselves, especially the struggling parts, with such deep loving compassion that we become a vessel for divine love.

(Opening yourself to soul-awakening love is at the center of our upcoming?Somatic Healing Program.?Allow your heart to explore if this opportunity is right for you.)

When we heal our relationship with ourselves, we naturally attract relationships that mirror this wholeness. Our capacity to love and be loved expands beyond what we thought was possible.

I invite you to look at your reflection and ask:?

What parts of myself am I ready to love more deeply?

Remember, your struggling parts aren't obstacles to love. They're invitations to it.

And the person who will love you will love all parts of you, especially the struggling ones. To feel worthy of such love from them, you need to love your struggling parts first and hold them with tender loving compassion.?

If you are ready to put love first and manifest the soul-filling and deeply secure love of your dreams, then this is for you…

?SOMATIC HEALING PROGRAM ?

With love,

Chen ?

P.S. Come and join us in the Somatic Healing Program for Love, or apply for a Love Frequency Audit to get your questions answered.?

I’ll be able to uncover with you your personal love frequency and map your healing journey to shift it to a soulful, nourishing, epic love. ?

But you do need to act fast. We have limited spots, so if you think you’d be a good fit, then NOW is the time to apply. And one of them could be yours.

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