Getting out of your own way

I'm Vivienne Joy, Mindset Reset Expert and my job is to help you get out of your own way. You'll know if you're in your own way because you'll hear yourself berating yourself - you'll hear yourself saying things like:

“Oh shit, why do I do that?”?

“Oh, I've done it again. I've sabotaged myself again”

“Oh, no, I should have done that instead of watching Netflix”

“Oh, I should have done that but instead I ate chocolate”

You will be all over the place and blaming yourself for it. Does this sound familiar? Are you in your own way??

If you are in your own way, please forgive yourself

You need to forgive yourself because you're in your own way to serve safety. Safety is what you're serving with all of this behaviour because it's nice and safe when you're not having to make effort. It’s nice and safe when you're not having to put yourself out there in business and in life. It’s nice and safe when you're not telling people how you really feel truthfully. It's nice, safe, cosy, and warm in this lovely comfort zone.?

The trouble is, you want to be over the other side in success, which is not quite so comfy and safe. It's a bit scary, it's a bit exciting, it's a bit exhilarating, it's out of the comfort zone and into the unknown - the deep, dark unknown.?

My job is to help you with this journey from safe to success because it could be like a rollercoaster or it could be just nice gentle steps in the right direction, in the right tempo, your way. So if you want to do that, follow me, because every day I come and help you a little bit with this and help you to understand for yourself.