Get them at their best.

isn't it true that sometimes it's the people that love you the most that screw you up the most?

Yes.Of course

They meant the best for us but they didn't know how to love us, the way we needed to be loved and that's fine!

what someone else taught them I don't blame them for that. If I blame my family for that you know what?

i also have to blame them for all the good shit too don't I?

I have to blame them for bringing me here, I have to blame them for raising me, I have to blame them for putting food in my mouth and clothes on me when I couldn't myself.

I have to blame them for giving me milk and putting me to sleep and doing all these things.I gotta blame them for both. It's called effective Blaming.

So we can remove them, we can edit the relationship meaning, get them at their best. Maybe it's a father. Maybe the only time he's really in a great mood at this point in his life is he's watching football on Sundays, so when would you spend time with him?

Football on Sundays.

Get them at their best.