How to stop self-sabotaging, get out of your own way and excel in all aspects of life...

Have you ever wondered why you aim to do something?that will create more success in your life, only to find yourself sliding back to where you started within a week??

That dirty little thing called self-sabotage…

HI, MY NAME IS ENDA QUEALY

I’m a hypnotic facilitator and self-sabotage maestro.??

I help high-performers stop self-sabotaging so they can get out of their own way and excel in all aspects of life.

In this article, I'm going to show you a proven way to finally GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE…

...so you can actually start living the life you've always been telling yourself you'd love to live - all without months or even years of therapy, counselling, coaching and medications.

With over 40 years of personal experience with anxiety, depression and addictions, and almost 16 years of sobriety, I discovered that alcohol and other substances were only secondary addictions.

They were just coping mechanisms that enabled me to shut down my primary addiction... Self-judgement.?

In my case, addictions delayed total self-destruction until help arrived. I had to be willing to change.

But when I finally stopped drinking, the void was immediately filled by obsessive, compulsive behaviours.

This obsessive behaviour continued for well over a decade until in hypnosis, I got clarity on what was driving my self-sabotage.?

And if there’s one thing I’ve learned in all this time, it’s that the quickest and longest-lasting results are achieved through communicating with the subconscious / superconscious minds and the body’s energy systems, simultaneously.

WHY WOULD SOMEONE WANT TO ENGAGE WITH THIS TYPE OF HYPNOTIC / ENERGETIC WORK?

Even though you are successful, you may sabotage additional success when it arrives and shut down certain opportunities before they can contribute to more success, much to your surprise and frustration.??

There seems to be a cap or limit on what you can achieve, as if something powerful is holding you back.

Underneath an outer veneer of perceived success… You're simply not happy and you may not even recognise your many achievements.??

You may be addicted, anxious, depressed and hopeless, even suicidal.?

You may live every day in flight-or-fight mode: everything looks like danger.?

You may often experience 'morning after' regrets, fallouts from ignoring or abusing loved ones and professional colleagues, leading to problems in your marriage, friendships, business, network, finances.

Little do you know that your behaviours are being driven by hidden traumas you can’t even remember, and this leads to confusion and frustration.?

You find yourself pushing people away who'd like to help you and instead, you isolate yourself in your own thoughts, often leading to despair.?

You may overwork, only to settle scores with your peers, ie. to prove your value to them and yourself.?

You may feel unworthy of success and this is affecting your ability to simply enjoy your life, career, marriage and other personal relationships.?

Your happiness may be based upon certain conditions. ie. ‘I’ll only be happy when I have (x, y or z)’. When you meet those conditions, you immediately create new goals or targets that deny you happiness until they are attained.

WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DON’T SOLVE THIS PROBLEM?

I don't think I need to tell you that if you cannot resolve this problem, you could end up losing people that you really love and care about.?

Your self-sabotage could negatively impact your livelihood, your health and your well-being.

This could lead to long-term stress and serious physical illness.

And I don’t say this to scare you - I’ve worked with many people who were staring into the abyss but they turned their lives around very quickly.

BUT WHAT IS SELF-SABOTAGE, REALLY?

HOW, WHEN AND WHERE DOES IT BEGIN?

Self-sabotage is known as any behaviour that undermines your success, in any area of your life.

These behaviours can go against your very best intentions to be happy and healthy…

Eg. choosing a healthy lifestyle, only to slide back into apathy, laziness, alcohol, junk food, etc. a couple of weeks later.

It's so frustrating, isn't it??

Consciously, you’d like to do something good and healthy for yourself.

However, your subconscious has a different approach and because it’s so powerful, it simply overrides the conscious mind.

WHY DOES YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND SELF-SABOTAGE YOUR EFFORTS TO BECOME YOUR BEST?

As human beings, we have a safety feature in our subconscious where we are hard-wired to blend into our environment and the wider tribe, as to not get singled out by the majority for being ‘different’.

It’s essentially a survival mechanism, and while it’s designed to protect you, it can also subconsciously hold you back.

The subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy, ie. everything you see on TV, hear on the radio, podcasts, is graded and ranked as information from your ‘tribes’.?

All the brainwashing messages you receive at school and the repetitive messages from the culture or religion you were brought up in are designed to bring about fear and conformity at a deep level.

All of this affects your subconscious programming, which aims to keep you normal and average, so you blend into the wider tribe. It's an ancient function of the brain that was useful thousands of years ago when survival outside the tribe was almost impossible.??

Because if you’re seen as a tall poppy, you will often lose your head…?

And this can start at a very young age, with spoken or unspoken pressure from your family to not outdo them, and to ‘know your place’, peer pressure to not outdo your friends or they will shun you, societal pressure to remain mediocre ‘and that’s OK because we’re all in this together’, right?

All this downward pressure has a negative impact on your subconscious programming.

And because your subconscious mind runs at least 95% of your habits and behaviours, this has a massive influence on how you are in the world.

So depending on your subconscious programming, you'll be happy, healthy, wealthy and wise... or not.??

IF NOT, WHY NOT?

WHY ARE YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS PROGRAMS CAUSING YOU TO SELF-SABOTAGE?

Well, there are numerous factors that altogether make up your programming.?

It starts before you're even born, because babies are delivered with 3 months of subconscious programming on board.

Their mother's levels of happiness and joy, fear and stress will adapt and prepare them for the environment they are born into.

And once we are born, we go on to live the first 7 years of our lives in a state of hypnosis.?In this hypnotic state, we simply download everything we see, everything we perceive.?

At that age, we don't need to be taught anything - we just need to be shown.??

This is because the bulk of the learning we do in our entire lives is done within those first seven years, hence the expression 'Give me a child ‘till he is seven years old and I will show you the wo/man or being.'

The downside of absorbing everything like a sponge, however, is that subconscious programs of fear and anxiety can start very early in life.

If I asked you about the things that really stand out to you from your childhood, I bet there will be certain memories that are burned into your brain that you’ll never forget.?

Those things might have created extreme happiness or extreme trauma and because of this, they stand out from the blur that was your everyday childhood.??

Some of these events could have been tiny and barely noticeable; or even perceived ‘threats’ that the subconscious mind categorised as something to protect you from in the future.

This is because trauma is all about how we react to an event, rather than the event itself.?So if there's some sort of a fear that you experienced during those first seven years, that fear can stay with you right into adulthood.

A good example is a young child looking at a photo of a plane in a magazine - and at that moment, a door slams and the subconscious mind associates the plane with danger and creates a fear of flying to ‘keep them safe’.

BUT CAN’T WE USE DISCIPLINE AND WILLPOWER TO CONSCIOUSLY LEAVE THOSE FEARS BEHIND?

Technically, yes but it’s easier said than done because the subconscious mind is so much more powerful...

To give you an idea, babies up to 7 years of age download 20 million bits of information per second.??

An average adult's subconscious downloads 11 million bits per second and our conscious mind can handle about 140 bits per second.

This is why it can be so difficult to override the subconscious mind.

But the good news is, when the right tools and techniques are used, the solutions are quick and easy to implement.

As a hypnotic facilitator, I can show you how to access and rescript your subconscious programs so they will serve you better.

And you can start eliminating any trauma or experiences from the past that are holding you back right now.

Your past can become history and your ideal life can begin right now.

Because once we reprogram our subconscious mind and harness it’s true potential, we can begin to experience abundance in all areas of our lives, not just one or two.

SO HOW DO YOU GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE, HOW DO YOU ACTUALLY GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY AND HOW DO YOU START CREATING A LIFE THAT YOU COULD TRULY LOVE?

There are five core elements you need to experience, in order to achieve that.?

These elements and more are included in my?

GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE PROGRAM

Step 1. Clarity

Step 2. Forgiveness

Step 3. Inspiration

Step 4. Consciousness

Step 5. Expansion

STEP 1. CLARITY

Get clear on what the issues really are so there's no more confusion. When we work with your subconscious, you’ll gain so much clarity, making your decision-making fast and simple, giving you lots more space in your mind and spare time in your life.

STEP 2. FORGIVENESS

Release old traumas and experience a sense of relief and freedom when your old negative self-talk is gone and you have extra self-confidence to live life the way you were born to live it.

STEP 3. INSPIRATION

Gain inspiration for what you truly desire as your life as you embed your plans for the future in your subconscious and become even more successful on autopilot.

STEP 4. CONSCIOUSNESS

Access more consciousness in your life by reestablishing your mind, body, spirit/energetic connections. During this process of awakening, your self-sabotage, anxiety, depression and addictions will simply melt away…

STEP 5. EXPANSION

Expand your awareness and intuition by tapping into the resources that your higher self offers..?Sounds like woo-woo but because the subconscious doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy, the experiences in these dream states will become real to it and have profoundly positive and long-lasting effects on your entire being.

THE GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE PROGRAM is far superior to other therapies because it uses a combination of modalities to get to the root of the problem, rewire your existing beliefs and set you up for long-term success.

Many of my clients had tried counselling in the past and found themselves talking about their problems but never resolving them or changing them at a deep level. In some cases, this went on for months or even years.

Other clients had tried other therapies and said they were made to re-experience the traumas they wanted to resolve. This left them feeling worse than they were beforehand.

This is the exact opposite approach to the one I use, where you don’t need to re-experience past events or even need to know what is being released. If you don’t want to remember what’s holding you back, you don’t have to.

I use a blend of powerful, exciting and dynamic skills and tools to catalyse amazing results for my clients: hypnotic and energetic facilitation, combined with powerful self-sabotage coaching and mind-hacks.

These skills have been acquired from the top 1% of UK hypnotists, the world's leading-edge consciousness facilitators and the world’s top self-sabotage coach.?

Used separately, these modalities are extremely powerful in their own rights but when used together, the results are absolutely astounding.

RESULTS

Here are just three of the many testimonials you’ll find on the 'case studies' tab on my website.

RESULTS (1)

I cannot stress how much a game changer working with Enda has been to me. Before we started working I was in a toxic relationship and crippled by addictions to a variety of substances and activities that were compounding my unhappiness.?

As it stands, I am 3 months sober, the happiest I have ever felt and being the best Dad that I can possibly be to my darling daughter.?

I am also far more productive in work and have achieved a wonderful sense of inner peace coupled with a renewed and continued purpose and focus. I am also playing and making music again which is without doubt my greatest joy in life, apart from being with my daughter!’ ANONYMOUS CLIENT

RESULTS (2)

I had Complex PTSD & extreme flashbacks that were happening for years. Three weeks of working together and they were gone. - NANA

RESULTS (3)

Peter was in a tricky situation before we worked together - he had a lot of self-sabotage issues, poor self-worth and a lot of insecurity in business.?

We did my GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE Program and everything changed for him. Here's what he said a few weeks later:?

My life has unequivocally changed after I started working with Enda. We have been able to actually conquer every single one of my issues. What I've realised and noticed is that the right people are now showing up in my life. And the biggest thing I wanted to fix was being present, not only with my family, but in my business...?

...and attracting the right individuals into my business and unlocking my full potential when it comes to sales...?

... and I can 120% say with clarity and conviction that the right people are showing up now, and I am able to move mountains and it wouldn't have been possible without Enda, and what he has done for me.”

OK, so maybe you can relate to some of what these three clients were going through - I have lots more results that you can see, just check my website, and I'd also love to talk to you in person to answer any questions you may have.

Now, if you found this article helpful, I’ve got something incredible for you...?

I can help you GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE for FREE...?

All you need is just 60 minutes…

On a FREE exclusive 1-to-1 Zoom call with me...?

And we can start to change your life in ways you could only ever have imagined.?

Big promise I know, but hear me out…

If you find yourself living in a vicious cycle where you keep on making the same bad decisions over and over...?

And no matter what you try, you can’t break free, then let me help you get out of your own way with my 100% FREE GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE INTENSIVE

You see, I’ve been doing this long enough now to have seen it all, and I’ll likely spot your biggest problems in JUST a few minutes.?

I’ll quickly be able to help you understand what’s driving this self-sabotage so you can finally get to the root cause of your problem and put a stop to the endless merry-go-round of frustration and despair...

In fact, with the techniques I use, getting out of self-sabotage can actually be an easy, straightforward transition…?

That’s exactly what this FREE 60-minute GET OUT OF SELF-SABOTAGE INTENSIVE is all about...?

Equipping you with the tools you need to finally get your life on track to be the very best version of yourself.

Here’s what we’ll do when we get on this intensive:?

1. We will dive deep into ALL of the factors causing you to self-sabotage RIGHT NOW?

2. You will gain insights on what you should be doing to eliminate self-sabotage, based on the amazing results I’ve helped my clients achieve.?

3. I will help you work out an actionable game plan to get you out of self-sabotage in a rapid time-frame.

Here’s my commitment to you…?

I’m going to give you massive value and impactful change on this call, no matter what.?

You’re a unique and special individual and you deserve to be free from this chaos.

You shouldn’t have to worry about the next thing you’re going to jeopardise or mess up...?

You don’t need to hamper the opportunities that come your way…

And you shouldn’t have to worry about never achieving your goals.?

Because it’s time to put a stop to this needless suffering, for once and for all…

That’s why to put your mind at ease, there will be NO pitching on this call - just 100% pure value only.?

I base my work on building great relationships - not high pressure sales tactics.?

So it’s 100% RISK-FREE for you.

Now you may be wondering what’s the catch - so here it is:?

Many people get such an insane breakthrough on this call that they want to continue working with me - which is fantastic…?

Either way, whether you want to work with me or not, you’re going to get incredible results, so you’ve nothing to lose and everything to gain.

BUT HERE’S THE THING…?

There are only 7 FREE spots remaining...?

I’ve already had a lot of interest and these spots usually fill up fast.?

And it’s strictly first-come, first served.

JUST KNOW...

I reserve these sessions for high performers who are already successful but will stop at nothing to make positive changes in their life.?

So if that’s you, then go ahead and book your intensive below.

RECAP

Ok, we’ve covered a LOT in this masterclass, so let me recap what you need to do in order to eliminate self-sabotage, and how that could look for you:

Step 1. Clarity

Gain so much clarity, making your decision-making fast and simple, giving you lots more space in your mind and spare time in your life.

Step 2. Forgiveness

Release old traumas and experience a sense of relief and freedom when your old negative self-talk is gone and you have extra self-confidence to live life the way you were born to live it.

Step 3. Inspiration

Gain inspiration for what you truly desire as your life as you embed your plans for the future in your subconscious and become even more successful on autopilot.

Step 4. Consciousness

Access more consciousness in your life by reestablishing your mind, body, spirit/energetic connection...

Step 5. Expansion

Expand your awareness and intuition by tapping into the resources that your higher self offers…??

NOW, YOU HAVE TWO OPTIONS...

First option is to take this information and figure it out on your own.?

Second option is for me to guide you through the process and facilitate you using leading-edge hypnotic and energetic processes, as well as self-sabotage coaching.

Because what I’ve given you here is a very high-level overview of my process as I'm sure your time is limited for articles like these.?

However, if you’re finally ready to get out of your own way and achieve the life you’ve always wanted, one where you make consistent progress to being the very best version of yourself, then go ahead and book your compatibility call - details are below!

REMEMBER:

This is only for high performers who want to get out of their own way...?

It’s a 1-2-1 offer so places are limited.?

So book in now and I look forward to talking with you in person soon!

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